| Title | : | How to Stay Happily Married |
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| Language | : | English |
| Format Type | : | Kindle Edition |
| Number of Pages | : | 54 |
| Publication | : | Published April 10, 2020 |
How to Stay Happily Married Reviews
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Book: How to Stay Happily Married
Author: Alisha Sharma
Publisher: Srishti Publishers & Distributors
Genre: Non Fiction, Self Help
Format: Kindle
Review:
The first time I looked at the title, there was a big smile on my face. Why you ask me?! Marriage is such a popular topic that we make fun of it when we are with our friends. There's this saying in Hindi, 'Shaadi ka laddu, jo khaaye woh pachtaaye aur jo naa khaye woh bhi pachtaaye.' (Marriage is such that the married, as well as the unmarried, suffer.) Isn't it funny! The married/unmarried always find the grass to be greener on the other side.
'How to Stay Happily Married' is a guide to make your married life peaceful and flourishing. It takes you right from the proposal stage to getting married to having a baby to in-laws and friends. The steps / helping points mentioned are in-depth; both the positive as well as the negative scenarios explained in detail. The ultimate aim mentioned in the book is happiness, self as well as your partner's.
The author, Alisha Sharma, has done a brilliant job of jotting down intents in detail when it comes to having a happy married life. She has kept the book very interactive, ensuring that you don't get bored. She does not just preach in her book but has also given real-life examples from her life. The topics and advice are very relatable. The language is uncomplicated and straightforward.
There is scope for improvement in terms of grammatical errors; this can be taken care of in the next edition. The book cover is adorable and apt for the subject in discussion. I would recommend this book to all the married couples, but especially those who are planning to get married. It'll leave you with a great deal to think about yourself and your partner. It's a short book, and you can finish reading it in one sitting. -
"We might bump into our life-mates as per fate, but a 'marriage' as an institution is not all destiny."
How can two individuals from different backgrounds decide to live together for the rest of their lives? - a question that may have passed most our mind at some point of time. Thinking about this, what do you feel? Excitement, fear, anxiety...?
This book is a guide stating the problems one face after marriage and how to deal with them.
The book is divided into several chapters, each one focusing on a problem and how to solve it. After reading some chapters I realised that there are some factors which we think insignificant that actually have a great impact on marital life.
The author has not only explained how to stay happy in marriage but also has thrown light on a sensitive issue- when to call it quits. That's right! Some relationships are so messed up that one should realise when to get help.
The author concludes the book beautifully with some tips for a happy married life.
To all the newlyweds and married couples, give this book a try! -
In India, parents- mostly of the older generations, believe that the endpoint of their(or in fact any) child of mid-twenties' life is marked by getting married. But with the emerging opportunities and broadening of possibilities, people of the newer generations are realizing that marriage is a part of life and not the purpose of life. All of this results in unmatched priorities and difficult management of the marriage and the other aspects of live, resulting in a slightly unhappy and mismanaged married life.
In this book, the author starts by making the reader answer the questionnaire that helps in releasing the mindset of the reader about marriage. She then talks about the practical part of it. How everything is done and how it affects us and our relationship. Then she talks about the ignorance of the future responsibilities that come with marriage and miscommunication or mere negligence create a ruckus out of it in the lives.
Without beating around the bush, she talks about everything involved in the pre, during, and post-marriage events and their impacts on us. This is a good book for all the people who are the 'marriage' age in keeping their heads clear to take better decisions. -
Title - How To Stay Happily Married
Author - Alisha Sharma
Pages - 54
Genre - Personal Development / Self Help
Publisher - Sristhi Publishers & Distributors
Date Published - 10th April 2020
Format - Kindle Edition
QOTD - There Is A Scope For Every Error & Correction; There Is A Scope For Rediscovery & Experiment; And More Then Anything, There Is A Scope For Abundant Love And Affection, If Only We Wish To Find It - Alisha Sharma ❤
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Marriage is one of the most important decision of a person's life. It's like a life changing, whether it's an arranged marriage or love marriage the pressure, the struggle is same it's just that each has its own advantage or consequences. How To Stay Happily Married by Alisha Sharma is a self-help informative guide for those who are married, will be getting married, who are in a relationship or are planning to be in a relationship even for those who are single as it will be helpful in the future.
I am a person who is in the category who doesn't want to get married and if given a choice I will stay single but obviously parents will never let that happen. The emotional blackmail we get from our parents, this part has been highlighted in the book. I felt connected instantly as I too have to go through this quite a lot of time.
The most important part about this book is Communication, which I felt was to the point and I completely agree with the Author. Communication is the most important part for the couples, as when they communicate and talk they get to know each other more. But there is one thing which I believe not just in a marriage, but each relationship, communication is a must as that helps in bonding with each other, understanding, you get to know each other's like and dislike and it ends up bring people more close to each other.
This book has several chapters with 54 pages which covers the relationship been the married and newly married couple. The best part, it has not been dragged anywhere, to the point, informative, helpful because the tips and facts the Author has provided are very genuine also they are based on real life facts and experiences. So whether you are newly married or already married and having some trouble in married life or getting married this book will be a major help and instantly you will feel connected. It will be a direct heart-to-heart connection like a guide or a BFF.
There is one more part which I really liked was ALISHA’S MAGIC MANTRAS: HOW TO STAY MARRIED. HAPPILY, this is the last chapter and the highlight of this book (do read this part carefully). The Author has not only explained how to stay happily married but given examples and tips how to maintain it.
After completing this book I had a smile on my face and I still have. The language is very simple, easy to understand, I also loved the cover so bright and eye catchy. All over I loved this book, the Author has done tremendous work and I highly appreciate her for writing the facts about her life. It was connecting and touching. I recommend this book to everyone as someday or the other we have to get married or have to go through certain stage in our life so this will be a guide and will be a helpful book. 😊❤️
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BOOK-- How to stay happily married
AUTHOR-- Alisha Sharma
GENRE-- young adult/sharma
PAGES-- 54
PRICE-- 27/-
FORMAT-- kindle
ABOUT BOOK:-
What’s the one thing that nobody can be ready for?
No, not death. But you’re close. It’s marriage!
We all start off our lives with the belief that marriages are made in heaven. But it doesn’t take long for us to start thinking – maybe it was a trap by the devil.
In a marriage, along with abundant love and a partner for a lifetime, come some hiccups – in-laws, power equations, kids, burdens and responsibilities. Anything can become a big issue if not handled wisely, in good time.
MY REVIEW:- ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
The cover of the book is cute and beautiful. The title of the book is apt for the plot. The language is cogent and easily understandable. The book is short read which helps you to deal with the relationship problems and situations. I like the way author kept quetionnaire to check the level of passion in your marraige. As author sharedmany tips and tricks on how to make your marraige or relationships more beautiful which are written by the author's observations and by experiences of her own. The flow of the book is great and it's fast paced book. The style of narration is very amazing. It adds some fun into read too. It was a very wonderful experience of seeing this marraige and relationships from autho's point of view. I must say author has done very detailed work with great research on it and also desrcibed it in beautiful way by covering all kind of points. Overall, i like this reading journey it was fun and amazing so i must recommend to all those lovey-dovey couples who are in relationships or are getting married or are already married!
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How to stay happily married by Alisha Sharma is a guide to a successful married life in this modern era. Each chapter deals with the various problems that a couple may face before and after marriage.
The author begins with a fun questionnaire for the readers, which is a quite good way to attract the reader’s attention instead of just diving straight into the topics. She asks all the necessary questions that one must think before saying the big “YES”.
She lists 8 musts and must not’s during a honeymoon as it is an important part of the marriage where for a few days the couple spends some time alone and gets to know each other better. The author portrays how communication is the main key by telling that at the starting of a relationship, we all are like blank slates waiting to be filled up by careful observations and effective communications. She suggests each couple to talk about small things, acknowledge each other, balance out and adjust accordingly and most importantly to have patience. Marriages are supposed to be give and take relationships and so one should give more chances to his/her partner. There’s also an excellent account of how one must deal with various types of spouses, pregnancies and in-laws.
At the end, the author has added a section named – “Alisha’s magic mantras” which include very easy guidelines that will bring happiness in your married life.
I would definitely say that this book is a well researched work. The author has done an amazing job in the narrative front too, given the language of the book is very easy to catch. Also it’s only 54 pages and is a quick read. -
❣Book- "How to stay happily married"❣
🔘Author- @howtostayhappilymarried
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Overall rating : ☆☆☆☆/ 5
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📖 Blurb ✔
↪Marriage is some what an important decision in everybody's life whether it's love or arranged. Main motive of marriage is to live happily with ur partner at end but
🔥does really all couple would get happy married life???💝
↪ Author very well try their best to pendown all the major points related to marriage w.r.t to the couple's as well for bachelor's. So it's mainly contains 9 small chapter's & one "author magic mantras" to deal with happily married life.❣
⏭ Afterwards their r some points on which author lighten up their views like
🔥Do u really ready for marriage ?
🔥How to deal with communication with ur spouse?
🔥How to manage ur In-Laws after getting married?
So their lots of crazy questions & you will get the answers when read it.
🌟 Point which really attract me💢
🎖Marriages are not made in heaven. You will have to make yours work.
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🔘Why I liked this book & gives the rating 4 ...☃
🔥Tittle is totally relevant & bcoz in today's scenario all are strangling on this issue.
🔥Cover page show that if you r couple u have to walk with ur partner.
🔥Language & describing all major issue in points, that's really good enough for overall read of the book.
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🔗According to story point of view, it some how not able to meet up their needs.
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So I recommend u all to read the crazy book & get the idea to work better with ur partner. 🔹🔹🔹🔹🔹🔹🔹🔹🔹🔹🔹 -
Marriage has become the most controversial topic; among family members, in society, in a young person life who have crossed 25. And still after achieving this one necessary goal; people often fail to make it work. This book is a guide to save it from that failure.
Author had statistically and logically put forward the points, which could lead to a marriage failure sooner or later. Her effort is to make a person realize those things and save the disaster.
This book is so important for newly marrieds and for those who are on verge of breaking their marriage; this might just save you two. The book is categorized in different chapters; from being a new member in respective families of the partner, to conceiving a baby; from accepting to give a free space to your partner, to not let the idea of freedom ruin the intimacy; from giving time to your professional life, to not let it shadow the personal life.
I think the points she had defined so nicely; could be understood by those who had or are dealing with all those problems. For those who are unmarried, it will become so unobvious at some places.
Moreover, it’s a short helpful read for this era; where saving a relationship is the biggest struggle. -
Marriage...a heavy word right? Some of you are already married while some of you are going to be someday. The book is a guide or you can say, a self help book which deals about how to stay happy with our partner.
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Relationship problems are discussed here and along with it the solutions are also given by the author from her real life experiences. She has beautifully presented various topics which are faced by couples in their day to day lives. From pregnancy to in laws everything is discussed in this book. .
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The writing style of the author is really simple and lucid which makes the book more interesting and effective. Some of you are going to find the book very relatable as you people might have experienced these type of relationship problems in your life so grab a copy of this book and stay HAPPY!!!
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I liked the cover a lot. The title of the book is completely relevant to the content inside. The length of the book is really short which is a plus point for the readers as they will find everything straight to the point. Overall it was a great read. . -
An insightful read, stripping the obnoxious reality of married life in today's world. It's more like a guide, showing stepwise analysis of different stages of marriage. This novel is a well-researched work by the author, adorning all the possible ways in and out of wedlock.
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To make us remember our grounds, the book starts with a reality-check questioner, reflecting the state we are bounded currently, thus building a clear picture of where we stand and what we want. With the lucid expectations set in place, the book launches like a fully loaded missile.
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The style of narrative is awe-inspiring. Pivotal points have been jotted down by numbers making it more legitimate and easy to follow. Different possibilities are well sorted by without missing out on any particular category in the given topic.
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There are soo many real-life instances woven here and there to make us realize the seriousness of each point indited. All the chapters are being sagaciously penned, especially this chapter ' Communication is the key' just wobbled my senses and made me realize how Communication plays a crucial role in any relationship.
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The real reason to get married- to be happy and to find a companion for life- is well embellished throughout this novel, considering diverse situations and people around. It's unquestionably 'THE BIBLE' for relationship matters. I would highly recommend this book to everyone out there to realize and relish the miracle of being in a relationship. -
This book is a short read book which helps you deal with the relationship problems and situations.
The author shared the solutions for the problems through her own observation and experience of marriage.
There is some questionnaire to check the level of passion in your marriage.
The author gave some examples of marriage situations and misunderstandings in relationships
Some tips are given in the book for a healthy relationship:
1. Do not expect perfection
2. Don’t blame them for not reading your mind:
3. Encourage them to pursue their passion.
4. Don’t force them to change for you
5. Convert orders to requests
6.Acknowledge their effort and time
7.Hear them out
8.Cultivate patience
The author also talks about How Communication is an essential part of a marriage and relationships, Tips to handle a different kind of companion and managing in-laws, Maintain a distance from those friends who gossip and bitch about their spouses they can break your marriage.
At the end of this book, the author mentioned ALISHA’S MAGIC MANTRAS: How to stay Married Happily.
The tips and examples are given in the book are helpful.
Recommend this book to those who are about to start a relationship, whether love or arranged marriage. -
Genre: Young Adult/ Self Help
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To say marriage life is tough, is an under statement. In addition, the entire process is absorbingly long. And I am not talking about the wedding, I am talking about the mental preparation. There are a lot of things that you need to face. Moreover, nothing absolutely nothing can prepare you for that.
What this book does? It makes things easier.
This book is a quirky yet insightful read to help you make your bond with your spouse stronger. .
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There are 8 rhetorical question at the start which is going to put you into serious thought. If you are someone who is facing issues in your married life, this book can help you gain perspective. And even if you're a happily married person; this book can help you to avoid future troubles. .
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I would suggest this book to all those 'stuck together in quarantine couples' and to the 'postponed wedding couples' and almost all types of couples out there. . -
This was quite a short and informative read. Great attention to detail and the writing style is lucid. Couldn't have asked for more.
The book has a total of 10 chapters that cover the overall relationship process. It talks about the beginning of a relationship, honeymoon phase, communication, power equation, types of spouses and so on. It is light and has this subtle dark humour. You can't help, but laugh at certain points because they are just so painfully true.
It is introspective, informative, light, and meant for all types of people. Don't get fooled by the title. Even if you're single, you can read it. It is quite helpful too because of all the tips and advice.
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A detailed satirical guide
Do the above lines make you think twice?
Well, it did for me.
How to stay happily married is a detailed guide on how to make your marriage work out for the best. The book starts with how to mentally prepare yourself for the marriage to how to handle the in-laws to how to balance the relationship after a miracle called child comes into your life.
The book points out every aspect in details and gives a descriptive analysis to handle any form of situation that may arise.
The author includes a number of personal references and examples to make understanding of the concepts more clear and reliable.
The author very well describes how the way of handling any situation directly affects the outcome and how everything can be sorted out if handled properly with care.
This book gives a lot of insights about life after marriage and I thoroughly enjoyed reading the book.
I would definitely recommend this book to all of you. -
Recommended to not just who is marrying but also who are in relationship
The title fully explained what the book is about.The whole book consists of 10 chapters in total.All the chapters are in arranged very wisely from the meeting of the two individuals till the marriage and further life.These arrangements of the chapters series wise makes things more easy and clear to understand.It had covered all the problems which usually occurs & or suppose to occur in the in marriages.Suitable examples were given to understand things more easily.All the solutions & so are given not only on the basis of the females but males also, basically no gender discrimination here.Lastly,i feel the whole book is not only for the married couples but few of them can be implemented by the unmarried couples also. -
Modern relationships and marriages comes with unhappiness and fights, to overcome this situation author comes up with this self help book. Divided into 10 segments , filled with lots of facts and real life experiences. This book is a guide of 'what to do?', 'what not to do?', 'how to do?' for a healthy relationships and happy married life.
Let's talk about the segments and and some important excerpts -
1. Are you ready for it?
- This book started with a questionnaire only to get to know about your position in that relationship or marraige.
- " No matter how much you fight for your kove, once you do get married, you will fight with your love."
2. Honeymooning, and how? >
- How? Do read it to know.
- " A honeymoon is a stepping stone to a happy life ; make sure you don't screw it up."
3. Communication is the key >
- " Baat kaarne se baat baanti hai" ( This is a hindi line)
5. Who is the boss : The power equation between partners >
- One of the two is bound to be more aggressive than the other, more assertive, more dominant and all that. But at the end of the day, it is your marriage and it is in your hands to change the rules to make your marriage work better.
5. Of marriages and miracles : types of spouses >
- This book is to discuss those categories that usually either create a problem, or always find themselves in trouble.
6. The actual kick - having a baby >
- "The biggest step to take after you're blessed with a child is to accept that there has been a major life-changing event."
7. Managing the in-laws >
- "It is essential for you to realise that you are 'adopting' a family when you marry someone."
8. Your partner's friend >
- "Establish clear boundaries with friends of the opposite sex."
9. When to call it quits >
- "One thing that you need to be reassured of is : there will be a new beginning and you will find happiness."
10. Alisha's magic mantras : How to sta Married. Happily.
- Where this book ends with a positive note by Alisha.
- "Life, like a game of chess, is a plan we need to execute with precision."
It's a short read hardly take 2 hours , facts are easily understandable for its free-flow narrations with beautiful humours. There are some funny part too. Real life experiences also put a lot of spices into it too. Overall it's a good read. Recommended for everyone who are in a relationship or married or going to marry after this pandemic. I am not a married person , still i gave it read, if it might help me in future.
Keep smiling, happy reading. -
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In today's world when we hear someone getting married or when we tell that we are getting married someone , they are most people who says
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"Bro, why are you getting married ?, Why do you want to spoil your life ? or they would say " Girl, you will need to sacrifice a lot if you get married , think twice"
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Some or the other way they are many who are scared to get married , or be in a relationship let it be love or arranged
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But if you want to overcome this fear and understand what it takes to be in a relationship or stay happily married ,then this is the book for you ❤️
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" How to stay happily married" by Alisha Sharma @howtostayhappilymarried is one book which talks about the ups and downs one goes through when they are in a relationship 🤩
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This book speaks about all the necessary topics of marriage like communicating in right way with your partner,🤩 understanding their likes and dislikes🤩 and how important it is to ponder on your partner's comfort 😍and how being patient goes a long way 🤩 , but one also needs to when it's high time to quit 😍🤗
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This is a good read for all of those people who are married, ready to get married , not ready , who are in love , in relationship but out of love, so basically it's a good read for everyone 🤞😍🤩 -
A good self help read
𝐀𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐨𝐨𝐤:-
📚ⓉⒾⓉⓁⒺ:- How to stay happily married
🖋️ⒶⓊⓉⒽⓄⓇ:- Alisha Sharma
🗞️ⓅⓊⒷⓁⒾⓈⒽⒺⓇ:- Kindle
🔤ⓁⒶⓃⒼⓊⒶⒼⒺ:- English
📖ⒻⓄⓇⓂⒶⓉ:- Ebook
𝑺𝒚𝒏𝒐𝒑𝒔𝒊𝒔:-
It's a book to understand the emotions and the way to be happy in married life. The major problem of modern day is the couples don't know how to deal with their partners for an happy and healthy relationship. Author gave many examples in the book to understand the complicacy of a relationship.
➡️ COMMUNICATION : The couple should communicate everything with each other without any hesitation. This will make you understand the feelings they have and the way you can handle your partner.
➡️ Efforts : Sometimes people r less expressive or over pressurized in their works. Sometimes they want to keep you happy with their efforts but couldn't able to do so because they don't know what to do for the shake of your happiness. So always try to judge the person by the effort not the action.
➡️CHANGE IN : Don't force your spouse to change the nature for any reason. Always try to accept and adopt your partner as he/she is.
➡️ PERFECTION : No one in the world is perfect. But the main essence of life is to treat everyone as a perfect person. You have to respect your partner's decision mindset thinking and the way of acting. This make the relationship a perfect one.
➡️ORDER 2 REQUEST : Never try to force your partner to a work. You are not supposed to be put your opinions on him/her. You have to request the person to do the work not to order.
𝑹𝒆𝒗𝒊𝒆𝒘 :-
👉 The cover of the book is beautiful and attractive along with a good title.
👉 The plot is a good one to understand the relationship better.
👉Well crafted and blended with emotions writing style make it a good read.
👉 Language is simple but easily understandable.
👉The examples given to understand the problems in married life is a unique one.
👉 A good self help short book.
👉A fast paced wonderfully narrated book.
𝑴𝒚 𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒏𝒈 :-
Cover :- 4/5
Title :- 4.2/5
Plot :- 4.1/5
Writing :- 4.3/5
Language :- 4.1/5
Narration :- 4/5
Climax :- 4.2/5
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𝒐𝒑𝒊𝒏𝒐𝒏 :- A must read self help book. -
What is the one thing that nobody can be ready for?
No, not death. But u are close. It's marriage.
What a fantastic start given to the book.
It is said that marriages are made in heaven but they are to be worked upon on the earth which i feel is pretty difficult.😁 It is said that shaadi ka Ladoo jo khaye wo pachtaye and na khaye wo bhi pachtaye.😁😁
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This book talks about everything that needs to be taken care of for a ever lasting happy married life. The author has tried to cover all the aspects in a marriage which should be considered for a well balanced relationship.
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We often say that marriage is a very strong bond, but we fail to realise that even more fragile. One small error not handled well can just destroy everything.
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The book is extremely relatable and I really liked author sharing real life experiences. What I personally loved about the book is that it does not only alka about the problems that can arise but also gives u a perfect solution to resolve it.
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This book is like the Gita, The Bible , The Quran for everyone who wants to get married and live happily thereafter and also for married people who want to give a new perspective to their marriage.
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This is a book which according to me should be read by everyone, single or married. For me this is one of the any time go to self help books.
