Being Ram Dass by Ram Dass

Being Ram Dass Reviews

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  Jessaka

  What a wonderful person !
  
  I 1st heard about him in my college years When a man I knew handed me his book, Be Hear Now. I didn't get it. I gave him back his book. I never thought much of RAM DAS over the years, but I heard about him from time to time, always good things. But, what I heard about him mostly went in 1 year and out the other.
  
  He spent most of his life in service to others. . He taught lessons from his guru in compassion. Then in time he taught lessons on dying. When he had a STROKE, it was found that he had given most of his money to charity. Friends took him in and cared for him , and in time his health improved. This is the last book that he had written his memoir.
  
  Hey died at the age of 88 while in hospice. This was on December 22, 2019. It was the same year that he was riding this book. Friends from all over came to say goodbye to him.
  
  I only wish that I had paid more attention .
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  Jt O'Neill

  I was a college student in the mid 1970’s when Be Here Now was making a splash on college campuses across the country. Yes, I was intrigued with the author Ram Dass and curious about the path that took him to writing this unique book. I will admit that Be Here Now was not an easy book for me to read. One reason is that the formatting does not follow the usual book publishing rules. I had to physically adjust myself and work just to read it. The different formatting along with the dark writing on dark pages and the intricate illustrations made it uncomfortable to read but so did the actual text. It was all unfamiliar territory for me. I was from a working class Irish Catholic family and I needed help just understanding these new concepts.
  
  Eventually, I grew in depth and understanding. Eventually, I came to greatly appreciate the work of Ram Dass and I grieved when I learned of his death in December of 2019. I was delighted to see that his autobiography would be published posthumously in early 2021.
  
  Being Ram Dass is four hundred pages of a life story. There is a lot of minutia, some of it interesting, some of it monotonous. Although I enjoyed reading the sections on his childhood and his work at Harvard and Stanford detailed in Parts I and II, I was also familiar with those years as he had summarized them in the opening (non numbered pages) of Be Here Now. Those twenty or so pages will offer a reader the background to the rest of his life but I did enjoy his storytelling. He weaves together names, places, and events of the era in an engaging fashion.
  
  For me, Parts III, IV, and V were more compelling. Throughout his life, Ram Dass took charge of his own story but these sections detail the compassion and grace that made his life so remarkable. He does not hold himself up to be a model of a perfect human being. In fact, he holds himself accountable for his humanity and yet he resonates with light and wisdom. I was especially interested in his path as he looked carefully at aging and dying.
  
  For me, this book was more of an autobiography than a memoir. What’s the difference, you ask? The difference is in the details. An autobiography, told in the first person, tends to focus more on the facts of a person’s life. A memoir, also told in the first person, might reveal facts but tends to focus more on reflection and the author’s emotional response to events of their life. In my ideal book, Ram Dass would have paired down some of the minutia and written even more from the heart about his life story. Don’t get me wrong. He did write from the heart but sometimes that writing got buried in details. Another reviewer suggested that if some of the pages get too bogged down, just read the opening sentence in each paragraph and you will get the general idea, freeing you up to focus on the more engaging sections. That’s advice worth considering.
  
  If you are interested in the 1960’s/1970’s, the counterculture, and research on psychedelic experiences, this book might appeal to you. If you are looking for a model of compassion, openness, and truth then this book will definitely appeal to you. Ram Dass was a gift to us from the Universe. He taught us how we are all walking each other home and I found his words to be thoughtful and inspiring.
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  M. Sarki

  
  https://rogueliterarysociety.com/f/be...
  
  …”No matter what someone else does to you, never put anyone out of your heart.”__Maharaji-ji
  
  That creed is not something I was ever gifted with. Life has many pitfalls and I found plenty of them. However, I was first introduced to the writings and lectures of Ram Dass back in the late sixties, early seventies. I liked both him and his work then and I certainly love him now. One pretty cool dude. Ram Dass has always been consistent in his representation of pure love and words of wisdom. Sad to know he passed from this life but his body did outlast most of his peers. This autobiography was written over the last ten years of his life. Interesting to learn what was behind his very public service and get a bit of insight into the other players in his continually evolving sphere of influence. The humility of Ram Dass comes through his writing, though he never truly suffered from any monetary lack which is the plight it seems for many of us. Richard Alpert was born into wealth and privilege which for me casts a shadow at times on his lifetime of good work and self-realization, but it was comforting to know he gave it all away. Any money he made from lectures or the sales of his books was put back into his foundations.
  
  ...My intellectual explorations made me think about who I was. I became an observer of my thoughts, learning how to watch how my mind changed. I became curious about the motivations that propelled me and others. Little did I realize that this observer stance would become important...I had just found the “I”—that perceptual point of view, that essence of identity, that scanning device. I’d found that place of awareness beyond form, where “I” exists independent of social and psychological roles. This “I” was beyond space and time…
  
  LSD offers this like-experience. Of course, I had felt it all along in my sober self, but using LSD gave me a first-hand intense lesson on getting outside of one’s self and being witness to it. As in not reacting. Simply watching and observing what might, or might not, unfold. Steve Jobs maintained that everyone should take a hit of LSD at least once. Not a bad idea.
  
  ...Suddenly, sitting there, it occurs to me that if Maharaj-ji knows my thoughts about my mother, then he knows all my other thoughts too—including all the things I’m most ashamed of…
  
  The quotation above reflects the astounding idea, and fear, of growing up a Lutheran that our dear God should know everything about me no matter what. Frightening, and for my part cause for extreme consternation. The same phenomenon of a fellow human being over in India knowing everything about me, all my secrets, guilt, and shame, just might be enough for my head to explode, and is something fortunately I have yet to have happen to me. It happened to Richard Alpert.
  
  ...We said that compassion is beyond sympathy or even empathy. It literally means being with another’s suffering. It includes the wisdom of impermanence and the understanding that personal narratives are not so important in the larger scheme of things…
  
  Nearing my own passing due to the sheer mathematics of my advancing age is propelling me into a more rigorous study on how I might better prepare for my own end days. I understand this is something we now all should be practicing every day, but rarely do we. My having a family member struggling on all levels while dying of cancer brings this book into even better focus.
  
  ...Contentment is an attitude of the soul…Maharaj-ji said no one can die a moment before his or her time or live for a moment past it...
  
  A joy to read and well-written, Being Ram Dass is as good as it gets, unless one had the pleasure and good fortune of being present in his midst. I have yet to subscribe to all these beliefs, but there are plenty of them for me to chew on in what remains of my time on this earth.
  
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  Luke Schalla

  Simply an account of the dance of a yogi’s soul as he journeyed home.
  
  “Love holds the universe together. Love is the emotion of connection and merging. Viewed from the soul, the world is a manifestation of love. Love is the bridge, the transfer of energy between form and formless, matter and spirit.”
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  Miglė

  what a journey. what a trip.
  
  when talking about great books, I often hear people discussing character development, and it's so damn rich in here.
  
  a misunderstood kid.
  a Harvard professor.
  a researcher of psychedelics.
  a guru.
  
  talk about a character arc. going from simply learning about ideas, to sharing them, to applying them, to creating them. a circle of life.
  
  and that matters, as it seems like everyone knows what to do and yet barely anyone actually acts on their exquisite knowledge.
  
  "when you get the message, hang up the phone".
  
  on top of that, he got to hang out with Allen Ginsberg, Alan Watts and Aldous Huxley all the time, which sounds like a recipe for greatness on its own (or a perfect answer to "who'd you have for dinner, dead or alive").
  
  “we're all just walking each other home.”
  
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  Aishwary Mehta (The_Fugitive_Biker)

  20th book of 2021 (188 Books read overall)
  
  Quote from the Book I Liked - ‘At times, I feel like I’m on a spiritual staircase, looking back at my former selves on the landing below, while above I am the witness, ensconced in my soul, watching myself traverse the steps in this incarnation.’ (Page no. 6)
  
  Rating - 5 Stars
  
  *Important take from the book* - We hold memories, yes, but we are not those memories. We are who we are, today. (Page no. 332)
  
  Plot Summary - Set against a backdrop of nine decades of sweeping cultural change, Being Ram Dass shares this modern-day luminary’s journey from a psychologist to renegade Harvard psychedelics researcher to a beloved spiritual icon.
  Perhaps no other teacher has sparked the fires of as many spiritual seekers in the West as Ram Dass. If you’ve ever embraced the phrase “be here now,” practised meditation or yoga, tried psychedelics, or supported anyone in a hospice, prison, or homeless centre—then the story of Ram Dass is also part of your story.
  
  From his birth in 1931 to his luminous later years, Ram Dass saw his life as just one incarnation of many. This memoir puts us in the passenger seat with the one time Harvard psychologist and lifelong risk-taker Richard Alpert, who loved to take friends on wild rides on his Harley and test nearly every boundary—inner or outer—that came his way.
  Here, Ram Dass shares his life’s odyssey in intimate detail: how he struggled with issues of self-identity and sexuality in his youth, pioneered psychedelic research, and opened the doorways to Eastern spiritual practices. In 1967 he trekked to India and met his guru, Neem Karoli Baba. He returned as a yogi and psychologist whose perspective changed millions.
  Populated by a cast of luminaries ranging from Timothy Leary to Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, Allen Ginsberg to Sharon Salzberg, Aldous Huxley to Alan Watts—this intimate memoir chronicles Ram Dass’s experience of the cultural and spiritual transformations that resonate with us to this day, a journey from the mind to the heart, from the ego to the soul.
  Before, after, and along with these waypoints, readers will encounter many other adventures and revelations—each ringing with the potential to awaken the universal, loving divine that links this beloved teacher to all of us.
  
  My Review - When I got this book, I was not quite sure about how it will turn out to be. As I read very little to none of Biography or memoir of anyone. Though I’ve read a few and I loved them (Greenlights by Matthew McConaughey and When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanathi). But this book was something completely different from what I anticipated. It cant be said as a completely Spiritual journey of a man or a scientific account of a man’s life. it is an amalgam of both. It’s about the life of an Englishman who pioneered in research of Magic Mushroom or better termed scientifically as Psilocybin (a Mind-altering chemical found in some exotic mushrooms). Who in search of a more and permanent heightened state of mind, travels throughout America, lecturing, experimenting and journaling all of his experiences until he found himself in India. India being an already advanced place for spiritual encounters and enlightenment journies, was always in his mind. Here, he finally found the person and answers he was searching for.
  
  The book talks about love, not in a male-female relationship way but more of a Guru-Shishya or even better Eternal love way. It guides the author (Ram Dass) and us as readers towards something that simply can’t be put to words. It makes the person reading this book better, an improved way to live the rest of life. To see the world in the warming rays of affection and love. It does talk about his days from when and how he found his interest in this field to how he propagated his knowledge and experience towards other humans. And he still is by his books and lecture. I do recommend this book to both the sceptic and believers of all and the one’s searching for a tit-bit of guidance here and there.
  
  Conclusion - Teaches the reader about eternal Love.
  
  Full Review on Blog.
  Link to Blog -
  The Tales of Fugitive Biker
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  Italiangirl

  I learned about Ram Dass ( given name Richard Alpert) when I was in college in Boulder during the first year of Naropa Institute. He was giving talks along with Bhagavan Dass, Alan Ginsberg and many others. I remember how enthralled I was with the whole scene. Shortly after, I wrote Ram Dass a letter about a dream I had and he was in it. He actually responded with a note that said,” where I am is closer than than in your dream”. Over the last 40 years I’ve read a few of his books and attended some of his talks. My spiritual path is aligned with much of his philosophy; his experiences with Maharaj-ji and with his understanding of death and the importance of service. Maharaj-ji became even closer to him after he died (or left his physical body )also known as Neem Karoli Baba, and I’ve experienced the same thing with my spiritual teacher.
  This isn’t much of a review of the book! It’s his autobiography and he tells the story with the right amount of history, drama, humor and deep honesty about his unfolding to who he really is. I especially liked the last chapters which described his new awareness of himself after his stroke, and the humbleness that developed because of it. Ram Dass died shortly after he finished this book. I’m sure he was ready. Love, serve, remember… Thats what his life was about, and that’s a beautiful direction for us to follow.
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  Iván Alvarado

  Es un libro muy diferente a lo que estoy acostumbrado a leer... Y la verdad es que me ha encantado. Se trata de una autobiografía de Richard Alpert, el cual acabara siendo bautizado con su otro nombre, Ram Dass. El libro cuenta sus inicios como profesor de Harvard y sus experimentos con el LSD. Observaron que el mundo que se abría ante ellos era mucho más grande de lo que parecía.
  
  Nos cuenta el impacto cultural que es tuvo en la época, el despertar de la consciencia en la juventud, etc. Yo siempre he escuchado la famosa época de los 60 y de los hippies y las drogas. Con este libro he logrado entender muy bien que sucedió entonces y el por qué de ese movimiento tan importante.
  
  Luego el libro da un cambio radical. Y nos muestra como nuestro protagonista se sumerge en el mundo espiritual. Conoce a un guru y su percepción del mundo cambia radicalmente. Es así donde empieza a crearse la figura del líder espiritual en el que se convirtió.
  
  Me ha gustado mucho el libro al ver que no se describe como una persona renacida y completamente perfecta, hasta el final de la historia nos habla de su humanidad, sus imperfecciones, sus errores y sus aprendizajes de estos... Y también el hecho de que habla de muchos temas sin tapujos: política, espiritual, drogas, sexualidad, amor, familia...
  
  Es un libro que habla sobre la vida. Un libro que habla del amor. De cómo amar y ser amado.
  
  
  
  
  PD: El libro tiene muchas fotografías donde salen todos los momentos que se describen y eso hace posible que la inmersión en la historia sea mucho más profunda.
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  Anjina

  Just like Ram Dass’s spiritual journey accelerated after meeting Maharaj ji, my spiritual journey started after I began listening to Ram Dass’s talks. So many things made so much sense after that. His way of delivering is so good. I love this man with all my heart.
  I have listened to ample of his talks, so I already knew a lot of the things in the book, yet it was such a delight to read his memoir.
  
  Although I often wondered about his personal life, I never thought about looking up information regarding that part of his life as my connection with him is deeply spiritual. This book gave me an opportunity to know him more intimately and for that I am grateful.
  
  I feel like the reason why Ram Dass appeals to me so much in regards of spirituality is because he makes everything so simple. There is never mention of “follow this, follow that, do this meditation technique, follow this spiritual leader…..” yada yada yada. It’s just do what you feel is right for you and love everyone.
  
  
  
  “No matter what someone else does to you, never put anyone out of your heart.”
  
  “I began to live in love as a state of being. It was as if love was no longer a verb with an object. In that state, I simply became a loving being, an emitter of love. It's a two-way street: as you become a loving being, the Universe is loving you. You are at home in the universe.”
  
  
  I love how deeply flawed he was and how he gradually embraced every part of his life.
  
  Dear Ram Das,
  I hope you are home with your guru.
  
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  Ruth

  Ram Dass began working on this nearly-400 page biography in 2010 at the insistence of his friend and co-author Rameshwar Das. Considering the last 10 years of his life were physically agonizing it took much persistence to complete.
  
  Ram Dass begins with his childhood as Richard Alpert ,born to a wealthy New England couple., giving a portrait of his family and family dynamics. He spends quite a bit of the book delving into his childhood and also the psychedelic era he and Tim Leary helped shape and evolve.
  
  Toward the middle of the book, goes to India on vacation and meets his guru Neem Karoli Baba aka Maharaj-ji, who gives him his spiritual name Ram Dass. Many experiences living communally with devotees, his nearly 20 year committed relationship with another man ( who he identifies as ‘Peter’) . This period also involves social action and reaching out to prisons and hospitals to do meditation there,
  
  The last part Ram Dass talks
  about moving to Maui and becoming enthralled with the island’s vegetation , the ocean, the air, the rain.
  He discusses determined early work is this.
  
  The writing sounds like his speaking, his with his wry humor and deep insights in conversational tone. Many thanks to Net Galley and Sounds True for e-ARC.
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  Sam Bradley

  This is a beautiful book written more as inner and spiritual growth than a summary of triumphs and failures. There are touching lessons throughout the book sprinkled with humor and insight.
  I found myself wondering if maybe he got too high on psychedelics and the rest of his life was a result of just flying too close to the sun, but I didn’t get that sense. He and another Harvard professor Timothy Leary are basically responsible for introducing the western world to psychedelics in the 60’s. To me, Leary seems have gotten too high while Ram Dass moved on and used those experiences as a catalyst for deeper meaning, inner growth and teaching. Psychedelics aren’t the theme of the book if someone is looking for that; but I did find it interesting they were experimenting with psychedelics in the early 60’s at the same time lobotomies were still being widely performed.
  
  To me there are two ways of looking at his book. In a psychological sense it’s a marvel the way he looked at things. The positivity he found in situations, the lessons he saw in things, how he handled relationships or inner and outer strife.
  On the other hand, not trying to measure how he interacted and viewed things and just letting my mind wander with the magical feel the book is filled with...wow.
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  Finja

  What a life. So inspiring. Incredibly grateful for the existence of this book. 🤍
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  Bob Woodley

  I've read almost everything Ram Dass has written over the years, starting with "Be Here Now" shortly after it came out. "Be Here Now" was his most amazing work, his magnum opus, a breath-takingly creative endeavor, a gigantic force that changed society. He never wrote anything remotely comparable.
  
  He was a teacher and I definitely learned a lot from him, and even went to hear him speak on occasion in NYC. He translated Hinduism and Buddhism to an American audience, and at core that's what his teachings were. He had a personal twist that I don't find elsewhere in Hinduism and Buddhism, namely his focus on the soul. Perhaps that is his Jewish upbringing coming through. His teachings didn't really evolve much, and his books seemed similar and even repetitious after a while.
  
  This autobiography was published posthumously. Much of it I already knew. The early years as a psychedelic pioneer were new to me, and those stories are quite entertaining. This bits where we strays from biography to teaching are weaker, but perhaps that because I already had heard his teachings so many times.
  
  I have great respect for Ram Dass. He was very honest about his flaws and is a great story-teller. If there is anyone who deserves a biography it is him. This is the real history of the hippie movement, from LSD to mysticism to old age. He lived it and led the way.
  
  If you don't know anything about Ram Dass, this would be a good book to read. But "Be Here Now" is the real gem.
  
  
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  Amy

  Ram Ram Ram.
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  Nathalie

  Although the facts, names and details were overwhelming for someone not familiar with Ram Dass, this book creates the right atmosphere for a deeper understanding of the man and his look on the cosmos.
  
  My suggestion if you find the details of some sections make you nod off: start reading the first sentences of paragraphs only, you'll get the idea and you can concentrate on the more engaging pages.
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  Jill E Bean

  Wow. I absolutely loved the autobiography, “Being Ram Dass.” At 488 pages, it is a long, beautiful and comprehensive look at his two lives. We meet Richard Alpert, the chubby Jewish kid-turned Harvard psychology professor who used psychedelics in his research. And we watch Richard transform into Ram Dass when he met his guru in India. Ram is well-known for bringing to the West a heightened awareness of Eastern spirituality and practices.
  
  If you’ve read Ram Dass’s best-known book
  Be Here Now—referred to as the counterculture Bible—you’ll find a repeat of those stories. But this memoir (which took 10 years to write) is also chock-full of new stories. We learn much more about his well-heeled East coast family, his fundraising efforts for charitable causes, his spiritual efforts to help those in prison as well as in hospice care. And of course we witness his journey after his debilitating stroke.
  
  Ram was in this lifetime for nine decades, so he has witnessed everything between the Great Depression to the ability to teach thousands via the internet. Of course, he has much to say about cultural events, spiritual transformation, social psychology the ego and his professional ups and downs.
  
  Ultimately, Ram Dass shares an uplifting message of humility, being of service and practicing lovingkindness. I think this book will have a much wider appeal than just to hippies and yogis. If you’re looking for a way to connect spiritually, it might just be a great fit for you.
  
  
  Special thanks to his longtime publisher, Sounds True, for an advanced digital copy of the book via NetGalley. I also purchased the audiobook and listened along while reading. Rameshwar Das did a wonderful job in helping to write, edit and narrate the book.
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  Dan Secor

  Come for the Acid trips, stay for the enlightenment ....
  
  Or, If Richard Alpert/Ram Dass didn't exist, mankind would have had to make him up.
  
  Throughout my adult life I have searched for a form of spirituality that I could identify with and settle into. About 15-20 years ago, I settled in Buddhism with some Taoism and Hinduism sprinkled in. I have been to several meditation and/or yoga retreats to Kripalu in Western Mass. over the years, including a couple where I have met some amazing people and learned so much about myself.
  
  However, the political polarity and COVID anxieties have led me to stray from my practice. My tipping point came this past weekend when a much anticipated training for meditation teacher training left me feeling empty. And then came this wonderful autobiography.
  
  Without going into details about this amazing man's transformation, I will say this. Ram Dass was a self-acknowledging flawed man who grew up in privilege and recognized the power of ego, only to give himself to teaching and love. He finished this book (with Rameshwar Das) very shortly before his life ended. It was remarkable, touching, sad and triumphant.
  
  This book came along just when I needed it.
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  Giles

  It is impossible to overstate the cultural and spiritual significance of Ram Dass (formerly psychologist Richard Alpert) and his work. As a pioneer of the 1960s counterculture, both as a psychologist and as spiritual explorer, he has had a powerful impact, even if some of it has been under the radar.
  You may not want to embrace the Hindu cultural and spiritual trappings that provided a context for his work. Nevertheless, there is a lucidity and a joyful sense of wonder about the heart of his life and teachings. In fact Ram Dass, along with Gandhi would say that his life was his teaching. I have heard many of the stories in this book before (though not all of them), but that didn't matter at all. The autobiographical perspective, looking back from the end of his life, and told to one of his closest friends Rameshwar Das, gives them a fresh feel and manages to uncover new layers of spiritual significance in each one.
  Reading this book, was a happy experience. Despite the fact that Ram Dass left his body a little over a year ago I could feel a tangible sense of the presence of this loving and joyful soul.
  I am sure I will read it again on many occasions.
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  Jeremy

  This book was both fascinating and inspirational from beginning to end. It was a journey of almost 90 years. Of Richard Alpert starting life as a young boy, becoming a grown man, experimenting with LSD, meeting his guru, Maharajji (Neem Karoli Baba), becoming Ram Dass and finally the long journey to just becoming a soul.
  
  There were so many interesting characters that pass by along the way. So many of whom have had a role in shaping my life. Living, dying, psychedelics, faith, devotion are just some of the topics that came by.
  
  The story is lovingly told by Rameshwar Dass who wrote this book with him. I strongly recommend the audio book, which is read by Rameshwar Dass.
  
  This is the strongest recommendation I could give for a book. Would give more stars if I could.
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  Eric Hannemann

  Excellent memoir of one of the greatest teachers of our times. If you have been interested in the history and background of Ram Dass, this book will you give you more and then some! Highly recommended for those who have listened or read through his teachings.
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  Eli Gray

  A bit too long winded
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  Pieter Aart

  A full of love account of Ram Dass's life before, during and after Richard Alpert. A detailed look into the rise of psychedelics in the 70's, including appearances on the scene by Timothy Leary, Aldus Huxley, Alan Watts and the likes. It must have felt like being at the frontier of their kind of exploration before stepping into the exploration of his own path, the frontier we all share, that makes us common yet vastly unique. For me this book was a very warm read, written in a light way, conveying the warmth of Ram Dass's path. Maybe a bit slow at the end, but worth reading. Ram. Ram. Ram. Ram. Ram. Ram. Ram.
  
  Ram.
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  John Hein

  I didn't plan to read "Being Ram Dass." Having previously read three of his books and Parvati Markus's "Love Everyone," I figured I knew enough about Ram Dass; however, the Love Serve Remember Foundation put on an online discussion group about the book so I joined in the fun. I'm so glad I read "Being Ram Dass." It provided some extraordinary detail and anecdotes that I hadn't read or heard before. Rameshwar Das, who was with Ram Dass in India and a long time friend, coauthored this wonderfully written book with Ram Dass over many years, and certainly seems to have been the driving force behind it. I definitely recommend the book.
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  Isaiah

  I always love the stories of yogis abs how they found their way. It was an enjoyable book and a form of motivation for me to keep working on my spiritual side
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  Annie Sell

  8/10
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  Steve

  Sorry, Ram Das. I admire you, and believe you did much good for the world. May your spirit be for a blessing. But I couldn't finish the book. The Harvard/Leary years have been covered in greater detail elsewhere, and the guru stuff is not for me. Great pictures, though.