Humor, Seriously: Why Humor Is a Secret Weapon in Business and Life (and How Anyone Can Harness It. Even You.) by Jennifer Aaker


Humor, Seriously: Why Humor Is a Secret Weapon in Business and Life (and How Anyone Can Harness It. Even You.)
Title : Humor, Seriously: Why Humor Is a Secret Weapon in Business and Life (and How Anyone Can Harness It. Even You.)
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ISBN : 0593135288
ISBN-10 : 9780593135280
Format Type : Hardcover
Number of Pages : 272
Publication : First published May 14, 2020

Anyone--even you!--can learn how to harness the power of humor in business (and life), based on the popular class at Stanford's Graduate School of Business.

Working professionals have fallen off a humor cliff. In fact, around the time we enter the workforce, the number of times we laugh and smile on an average day statistically starts to plummet.

And yet, research shows that humor is one of the most powerful tools we have for accomplishing serious work. Studies reveal that humor makes us appear more competent and confident, strengthens relationships, unlocks creativity, and boosts our resilience during difficult times. Plus, it fends off a permanent and unsightly frown known as "resting boss face".

Top executives are in on the secret: 98 percent prefer employees with a sense of humor, and 84 percent believe that these employees do better work. But even for those who intuitively understand humor's power, few know how to wield it with intention. As a result, humor is vastly underleveraged in most workplaces today, impacting our performance, relationships, and health.

That's why Jennifer Aaker and Naomi Bagdonas teach the popular course Humor: Serious Business at the Stanford Graduate School of Business, where they help some of the world's most hard-driving, blazer-wearing business minds build levity into their organizations and lives. In Humor, Seriously, they draw on findings by behavioral scientists, world-class comedians, and inspiring business leaders to reveal how humor works and--more important--how you can use it more often and effectively

Aaker and Bagdonas unpack the theory and application of humor: what makes something funny and how to mine your life for material. They show how to use humor to make a strong first impression, deliver difficult feedback, persuade and motivate others, and foster cultures where levity and creativity can thrive--not to mention, how to keep it appropriate and recover if you cross a line.

President Dwight David Eisenhower once said, "A sense of humor is part of the art of leadership, of getting along with people, of getting things done." If Eisenhower, the second least naturally funny president ever (after Franklin Pierce), thought humor was necessary to win wars, build highways, and warn against the military-industrial complex, then you might consider learning it too.

Seriously.


Humor, Seriously: Why Humor Is a Secret Weapon in Business and Life (and How Anyone Can Harness It. Even You.) Reviews


  • Chris Boutté

    I'm a recovering drug addict with 8 years sober, and when I got clean, I was miserable, and there was nothing funny about life. Eventually, I learned how important it is to not take life too seriously, and that's why I decided to pick up this book. I love psychology, and I love to joke around, so I had to get this book from Aaker and Bagdonas. In their book, they discuss everything from the psychology of humor to good practices for using it in the work place. I've worked in rehab facilities where you deal with mental illness, suffering, and a lot of death, and one way I was able to connect with clients was through humor, and that's why everyone needs this book. 

    Personally, this book just helped confirm a lot of things I already do, but that provided me with a ton of value. Sometimes I question trying to lighten the mood and cheer colleagues up when we're dealing with a work disaster. But if you're someone who is socially awkward and/or introverted, you definitely need this book. Aaker and Bagdonas give you practical tips to help you feel more comfortable loosening up at your own pace and they also teach you how to walk the fine line between humor and upsetting people. I really hope a lot of companies read this book because it benefits people in all aspects of an organization and it'll help people realize that life and work can be fun while we also handle business.

  • Siqahiqa

    "Of course, we shouldn't go for funny all the time." Not everyone is funny in the same way."

    Am I a funny person? I believe I'm not 🙈 I'm a serious person and become more serious while working or occupied with some tasks.

    This book is not about telling jokes or even be funny. In fact, this book is not funny, seriously. It is all about why humour is so powerful and how we can use more of it, delivering funny moments at work despite all the seriousness. One of the authors, Aaker, realized that humour could drive people in a way she never imagined. That’s why she started to study humor and interviewed many people, including comedians.

    This book is very informative and made me realized that there are many things to learn about humour. Some of the interesting facts are the four humour styles and four common misperceptions or humour myths. Two humour myths that I faced are the failure myth (fear for our humour will fail) and the being funny myth (to use humour, you have to ”be funny”). This book also teaches that sometimes, be true to someone is also one of the ways to be funny.

    The writing style is direct, but I didn’t quite understand the whole concept. Sorry to say that this book did not work well for me. But two chapters that I liked the most are chapter 4 (Putting Your Funny to Work) and chapter 7.5 (Why Humour is a Secret Weapon in Life).

    Nevertheless, this book is useful to spark self-awareness about humour in our life and work. Highly recommend this book to anyone who wants to know in-depth about humour and for you who work with people, especially if you are at a higher level in the organization.

    Leaders can use levity amid serious issues at the workplace so that your people would not scare to talk anything to you. One quote that I liked from this book; "My job as a leader isn't to prevent mistakes from happening; my job as a leader is to correct them as quickly as possible when they do happen. However, if nobody feels comfortable bringing me the bad news - it's going to take me a lot longer to correct mistakes." All leaders should have this kind of thought 👍🏻. Rating: 3/5 ⭐️

    Thank you, Times Read, for providing me with the review copy ✨


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  • Susan

    Disappointed that a book about humor didn't make me laugh all that much. I was expecting funnier writing than this.

    I liked the parts about the science and construction of humor, and also the overall message that it is not always about being funny and telling hilarious jokes but more about the mindset of having fun and levity in life. The book went downhill towards the end and the anecdotal nature of the later half of the book really tired me out. Overall I don't think there is anything in the book that has any Wow factor for me.

  • Bakertyl

    Without trying to be an asshole, not a funny book.

    But informative, entertaining, and direct. If you work with people this is a great look at how personal relationships are improved with humor.

    **I received this story early from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

  • Chance

    A book we all need in these divisive times.

  • Aayushi

    When I read the blurb of this book, I was immediately interested in reading it. Humor in workplace (and in life) is such an important but rarely talked about topic. While numerous career and workplace related books talk about communication, storytelling and negotiation, hardly anyone talks about wielding this amazingly powerful but a tad bit risky tool. What’s more interesting is the fact that this book has been written by professors at one of the best business schools in the world, where it is taught as a very popular course. Having been a business student myself, I was extremely excited about reading this book!

    Humor, Seriously is a short, powerful and immensely entertaining read – yes, the authors have definitely got an amazing sense of humor themselves. In just 272 pages, the authors Jennifer Aaker and Naomi Bagdonas give a complete and detailed insight into the importance of humor in workplace, the common misconceptions related to it, how to identify your own humor style and employ it tactfully, and how to avoid and recover from humor fails. And when they say humor, they do not mean cracking jokes that send your colleagues rolling on the floor laughing. Rather, this book focusses on identifying and encouraging fun and light-heartedness in formal communication as a means of forming better relationships and relieving stress.

    Like many other people, I had my reservations about reading a book dealing with humor – I am not a witty or a funny person, am I supposed to crack jokes at workplace to be more likeable now? This book deal marvelously with the “nature vs. nurture” debate when it comes to having a sense of humor. It also talks about how our personal style of humor varies significantly with the kind of company we are in (as it should) and our position, and how each and everyone of us can contribute in their own way in finding joy in our everyday lives.

    The authors have taken lessons from multiple stand up comedians to understand how to infuse humor in everyday situations, while taking care not to commit a humor faux-pas. The varied real-life examples contained in this book sufficiently explain how to handle humor tactfully, without being insensitive or rude, and how to gracefully handle any errors.

    I especially loved the overall writing and presentation style – the gorgeous blue cover, the hilarious footnotes and the quirky freehand graphs and Venn diagrams! I flew through the book and enjoyed it thoroughly – as I am sure most of you will.

  • nadiaizzaty

    Q: “ When was the last time you really laughed? “ - ( pg 21 ).
    A: When I read this question , I keep on thinking when was I 💯 laughed really hard and it turned up none . 😅

    Even this book have “humour “ on it title please don’t expect you will be laughing all the way while reading it . 😂 . But, surprisingly, I really enjoyed reading this gem 📖. Maybe because lots of the points or chapter relatable mostly with my working environment . 😁 . Oh, I like the writing style which is easy to understand.

    Indeed , in our life , we really need at least a little bit of humour to avoid anxiety, stressful , boring and dull situation. But, “ ... we shouldn’t go funny all the time - that would be exhausting “ ( pg 25 ) 👍🏻

    The book talks about how humour :
    * Can effect our health.
    * Can effect the tenderness between leader and staff.
    * Can create “ fun at work” environment .
    * Can improve performance.
    * Make us think out of the box or be more creative.
    * Can make any discussion, training , video more interesting .Automatically, the points or information on that particular topics make people remember easily.
    * Make any introduction or goodbye more lasting with positive impressions.
    * Can break the uneasiness.
    There’s also some information that been discussed in the book such as the humour style , benefit of laughter in workplace, the myth of humour, the archetypes ( which means type of employees who create a humour culture ) , when to use humour without cross the line and more.

    I strongly recommend this book to those who want to know in details about humour and levity , who want to implement humour in the organisation/ business and leaders who wish to create a fun at work environment . I wish I could write much longer but there’s not enough space . 😭

    Love this quote : “ A culture that balances serious work with levity and play can actually improve team performance . “ 👍🏻 #canIworkwithGoogleteam? 🤭
    Rating : 4/5 star ⭐️

    Thank you @putrifariza & @times.reads for providing me this review copy. 😍
    P/s : swipe next for the book snippets. #nadianiabookreview #nonfictionbooks

  • Jonathan

    One of the most depressing book's I've ever read. I struggled through to the end in an almost ironic way marvelling that a book could be this bad. The execrable attempts at "humor" in the opening chapter were off-putting - were they deliberately being unfunny? This is a miserable marriage of a self-help and a business advice book. There was one hilarious line in the book which I didn't write down but went something like this after the relating of a tedious anecdote"....this is an example of the way humor can be leveraged in the workplace". This conjured the image of some desperate, humourless corporate drudge earnestly following the lessons of this book to gain advantage in the workplace, if so, I pity the poor fool's colleagues.

  • Nay Keppler

    Easy, breezy read about humor at work. As someone who relies on humor to get me through the workday - whether it’s laughing at or with my colleagues, or cracking stupid jokes myself, a lot rang true for me and I learned more about creating a healthy culture of levity in the workplace. There aren’t a ton of a-ha (or even ha-ha) moments in here, but it’s nice to read a leadership book that’s not so stuffy and encourages some fun.

  • Puty

    As someone who regularly uses meme as a form of communication, I like this book. It explains humor pretty 'scientifically', like 'the anatomy of humor' where it lists down what makes something funny. It explains why we like funny colleagues & bosses and why we should not be afraid to be one. Also it shares about the gray area of humor, how it fails and what to do when it does. It is full of examples about humor and levity at work.

    If you're a leader or at management level and want to create a better working environment, you should read this 😊

  • Devika

    Picking up this book is somewhat of a confirmation bias - I have always believed in and harnessed the power of levity especially in navigating situations weighed down by gravity (posed by stress, and loss).

    Humour, to me, is laughing centred on shared recognition of common truths. It is one of the most powerful ways of getting closer to people. In fact, I joke around about being "the broker of memes" with all my friends, and have built great work relationships at work through this as well.

    This book isn't a primer in learning how to joke, but more about understanding the power of humour. The biggest insight offered here, however, was that even being able to appreciate a 'good' joke is healthy and boosts creativity in the work place. So you don't necessarily have to be the funny one, you're good as long as you can laugh at someone else's joke. Laughing helps in removing "functional fixedness", or the inability to realise that something known to have a particular use may also be used to perform other functions. In an experiment, brainstorming funny captions led to higher activity in the brain regions associated with creativity, learning, and recognition. Further, these creative boosts persisted long after the initial task.

    However, this book lacks in a few regards:

    - The 4 styles of comedy outlined here aren't very clear archetypes, with a huge overlap across the "Stand Up" (Aggressive Expressive) and the "Magnet"(Affiliative Expressive).

    - It is cited that Google has TGIF or "Thank Goodness Its Friday" sessions where no topic is off limits. But, in August, 2019 Google issued guidelines to curb divisive political debates in office and this book was published in 2020. Wondering why the authors didn't address this.

    - I'm surprised that with so much talk of balancing levity with gravity, military wasn't used as a case study. Soldiers are often known to make light of what they have to deal with in order to build camaraderie, and essentially stay sane in the midst of chaos.

    While I enjoyed the anecdotes from famous organisations (IDEO, Virgin, Pixar, Spanx, Twitter, Apple), it seems the content of this book would be better off delivered via a podcast. Overall, there is an amusing sense of irony given that the authors emphasise being mindful of the medium.

    It's a quick read, but wouldn't recommend prioritising it if you're low on time and find it hard to pick up books as is.

  • Ashley Boughton

    Embrace levity. Laughter brings us closer together, it builds relationships and helps us embrace the positivity in our life at work, our relationships and our character. Backed up by extensive research, Humour Seriously is an excellent tool for improving your leadership potential by understanding how you can use humour to gain power in a situation and/or use it to down-play your power. The higher up your role in an organisation the more distance is perceived between you and your subordinates. By incorporating a little levity into the workplace, you can achieve greater employee satisfaction without compromising the quality of output. It will also make your job so much more enjoyable. I loved reading this book

  • Yash Raghuwansi

    Would've better served the material as a blog post rather than a book.

  • Akhil Jain

    My fav quotes (not a review):
    -Page 18 |
    "As she approached the woman behind the register, she asked if the apples stacked in a gorgeous, waxy pyramid display were for sale. To which the woman looked Naomi up and down and curtly replied: “If you want one, get in line.” So Naomi got in line, and watched as the cashier continued snapping at one customer after another. Impatient. Terse. Tarter than the Gala apples stacked before her. When it was Naomi’s turn, she could simply have said, “I’ll have an apple.” But after her weeklong full-body immersion in the world of comedy, she saw an opportunity to introduce a spark of levity into the interaction. “Can I please have your favorite apple?” she said with a smile. The woman paused, confused. “My favorite?” “Yes. Your absolute favorite.” Then, a smirk. On a dime, everything shifted. The woman began digging through the pile of apples, laughing at first to herself and then with Naomi as they meticulously inspected each. When Naomi went to pay, the woman replied, still smiling, “Don’t worry about it. I don’t charge for my favorite apple.”"
    -Page 35 |
    "read once that if you insert the word “deadly” in a title, people will be more likely to (a) read the subsequent content and (b) take it more seriously."
    -Page 39 |
    "Naomi was in the middle of explaining how to tailor your communication to different personality styles, when Craig interrupted: “Can you cut to the part where you just teach me how to make my team do what I want?” The room stiffened. Somewhere, a record screeched. All heads slowly swiveled from Craig to Naomi. Without thinking, she playfully shot back: “Great question, Craig. You’re thinking of the workshop I run on mind control. That one’s next week, and you’re welcome to join.” A long second passed while Naomi wondered if she’d just torched her career. But then, the room erupted in laughter and all eyes turned back to Craig. His comment had been piercing, challenging, borderline disrespectful. From the dynamics of the room, it was clear that Craig was not accustomed to being challenged—particularly by someone so far his junior. And yet, for the first time all day, he was smiling. “I respect you,” he said, rocking back in his chair. “You can continue.” “Thank you,” Naomi replied. “I was planning on it.” Almost immediately, the energy shifted. For the rest of the workshop, Craig was engaged and respectful, and his executive team followed suit."
    -Page 42 |
    "Half of the research assistants made a final offer that was significantly above the participants’ last bid, stating simply “My final offer is X.” The other half offered the same amount, but said with a smile, “My final offer is X…and I’ll throw in my pet frog.” Here’s the kicker: For the final offers accompanied by the pet frog line, buyers were willing to pay, on average, an 18 percent higher price. What’s more, the buyers later reported enjoying the task more and feeling less tension with the seller."
    -Page 42 |
    "The goal was to walk away from the table with more points. In the humor condition, one person from each pair of participants (either the recruiter or candidate) shared a Dilbert comic strip about negotiations before the simulation began. Not only did the comic-strip-sharing individuals enjoy a 33 percent higher point value than their negotiating counterparts, but the pairs in the humor condition reported 31 percent higher trust in each other and reported feeling 16 percent greater satisfaction with how the negotiation went overall."
    -Page 59 |
    "Imagine you’re at a dinner party and a guest walks in thirty minutes after the first course, announcing apologetically: “Sorry I’m late. I didn’t want to come.”"
    -Page 62 |
    "I smoked cocaine the night before my college graduation and now I’m afraid to get a flu shot."
    -Page 64 |
    "Or Larry David, on Twitter, sharing his feelings about parties (“I hate parties. But then to have to go to an after party? Are you kidding me?!?”), college basketball (“Is there no vaccine for March Madness yet?!”), and birthday cards (“What do I do with old birthday cards? Keep them? Throw them away? They’re useless. No more cards please. Email me.”)."
    -Page 65 |
    "I run every day. I have no idea what I’m training for. ’Cause I am not physically gaining any skills. Like, the only way jogging is ever gonna help me in life is that at some point someone tries to rob me by chasing me for three to five miles at a moderately slow pace."
    -Page 66 |
    "Like the old saying goes: Comedy equals tragedy plus time. So the next time you find yourself in a miserable—or miserably awkward—situation, take solace in the fact that eventually it’ll make for a great story. Eventually."
    -Page 69 |
    "I just want to feel what it feels like to have male confidence. My fantasy of what it’s like to be a guy is you wake up in the morning, and your eyes open, and you’re like “I’m awesome! People probably want to hear what I have to say!” Chelsea doesn’t directly say that women are often made to feel they aren’t valued, which is a truth audiences might find recognizable but depressing. Instead, she makes this point by contrasting the imagined male experience. A man might not literally think these things—they’re stunningly simple—but she can make audiences aware of the things they might be missing about how their experiences might differ."
    -Page 70 |
    "Maria Bamford is a master at constructing jokes with precise, vivid language: I was so sick of myself asking that question of people in relationships: “How did you guys meet? Did your hands come together by accident in a garden?”"
    -Page 70 |
    "Consider this joke from Jimmy Fallon: British researchers are warning that one-fifth of the world’s plant species are at risk of extinction. Even worse, kale is expected to survive."
    -Page 72 |
    "Every conversation with my dad is like an M. Night Shyamalan movie. It’s just ninety minutes of buildup to no payoff. “That’s the ending??”"
    -Page 72 |
    "I’ve never been killed by hitmen, so I don’t know what it’s like in the moments just before you’re killed by hitmen, but I bet it’s not unlike when you’re on the subway and you realize that a mariachi band is about to start playing. Good analogies are like cantilevered bridges: difficult to construct. So if this technique doesn’t come easily to you, you’re not alone."
    -Page 76 |
    "One thing that can help is to acknowledge that you use the story a lot—“I love this story because…” or “Here’s what I always think about…” If you embrace your love of the story, those around you will accept the repetition as part of your character. (And all the more reason to choose your stories wisely, since they become a part of you.)"
    -Page 87 |
    "She was taking off from work early one day to get a haircut, and she and her boss, Saagar, had shared a laugh about the fact that the client deliverable she was working on might not be perfect, but at least her hair would be. Later that evening, Daria sent the completed deliverable to her boss, along with this callback: Saagar, Attached is the updated deck. Per our chat this morning, I think this will be a great tool to start the conversations we need with leadership. Let me know if the deck needs revising or if it now matches my hair: perfect. Daria Saagar promptly replied in kind: Daria, No revisions needed, matches your hair perfectly. Enjoy the holidays with your family. With beautiful hair always, Saagar Just like that, Daria had reinforced the earlier moment of levity she and Saagar had shared,"
    -Page 89 |
    "As Saagar showed, they are also prime real estate for levity. Here are a few humorous sign-offs that have caught our eye: When asking a favor: With fingers and toes crossed, When apologizing for an absurdly slow response: Sheepishly, When in heads-down mode: Yours, heavily caffeinated, In reference to a phone call with dog barking in the background: Still wondering who let the dogs out,"
    -Page 89 |
    "Wanted to follow up with a low-tech, never-fail PDF with some flowcharts. Attached for your viewing pleasure. Cheers, Sachi PS. PDFs are the new black.” Hold up. Are PDFs a color? No. Does the phrase “PDFs are the new black” make sense at all? Barely. But somehow, it worked (at least well enough for Mark that he felt compelled to share it with us). What makes this technique so delightfully easy is that often a bit of randomness does the trick. Simply naming something that’s true for you in the here and now, like “PS. it is HOT in Tucson” or “PS. it’s raining in San Francisco” makes it clear that you’re a person and not a robot (since everyone knows that robots can’t function in extreme heat or rain). Whether it’s something random, a callback to the content of the email, or a reference to an inside joke you and the recipient share, a lighthearted PS is the email equivalent of a wink: It signals intimacy and invites playfulness in return."
    -Page 91 |
    "Oh hello! I am backpacking in the Sierra Nevada without cell service through September 22. Yours will be my favorite email to respond to upon my return. With love (and favoritism), Peter
    A callback within a spiced-up sign-off, a hint of exaggeration, and a whole lot of humanity."
    -Page 98 |
    "So after the call ended, she sent a very short email summary of next steps to all the participants, and in lieu of the traditional “Thanks” or “Best,” she ended with the sign-off “In Future Brevity, Sonal.” Naik wasn’t expecting anyone to acknowledge this jab at her own expense. But to her surprise, she received responses from three other members of the client team who had been on the call and clearly appreciated the joke. One wrote, “Hah! Future brevity—nice.” Another replied, “Great recap Sonal…definitely brief and not long :).” And a third shot back, “Loved the brief update.”"
    -Page 102
    "So in a moment of inspiration, she bought a few pairs of shoes, went to the post office, and mailed each of them a shoebox containing a single high heel and a handwritten message that read “Just trying to get my foot in the door. Can I have a few minutes of your time?” followed by her phone number. It worked. The buyer at Neiman Marcus was so amused by the gag that he actually called her back."
    -Page 112
    "So when the agency strategists approached Klinman with the challenge at hand—How should stores compete against e-commerce?—the first thing Klinman did was turn it into a joke setup: Reasons It’s Better to Go to the Store than Buy Online. He posted it on Pitch, and hundreds of writers immediately got to work. Pretty soon, punch lines came rolling in, from “Amazon never lets you keep the hanger” to “We don’t have a Sbarro at home” to “Because my New Year’s resolution was to meet new people.” In just a few hours, Klinman and the agency strategists had generated hundreds of jokes ranked by how funny they were. But underlying each of these jokes was real insight. “Amazon never lets you keep the hanger” tapped into the reality that little extras go a long way. “We don’t have a Sbarro at home” reminds us that people love to shop and snackers love food, something they can’t instantly get online. And “Because my New Year’s resolution was to meet new people” taps into the fact that online shopping is a solitary activity—and into the real desire for in-person connection"
    -Page 114
    "“Oddly Specific Things to Be Insecure About.” Responses to that one included “My cat only meows at my boyfriend,” “I can never flip a pancake on the first try,” and “My ears are too small to hold a cigarette.” Did you just check your own ears? So did we."
    -Page 145
    "In Bossypants, Tina Fey explains: If I start a scene with “I can’t believe it’s so hot in here,” and you just say, “Yeah…,” we’re kind of at a standstill. But if I say, “I can’t believe it’s so hot in here,” and you say, “What did you expect? We’re in hell.” Or if I say, “I can’t believe it’s so hot in here,” and you say, “Yes, this can’t be good for the wax figures.” Or if I say, “I can’t believe it’s so hot in here,” and you say, “I told you we shouldn’t have crawled into this dog’s mouth,” now we’re getting somewhere."
    -Page 187
    "Boldness: “I wish I had lived more fearlessly.”"

  • Reed Hansen

    Really enjoyed this. I think humor is underutilized in the workplace and professional settings. I am immediately suspicious of people with no sense of humor.

  • D J Rout

    The usual style of modern American business manual. The initial thesis is that humour is important to wellbeing, and useful in business, and there is much referencing to various psychological studies to confirm the efficacy of humour in general life and general business.

    Part 2 defines the four types of humourist they have invented, then offers some hints on how to develop your own humour and sense of humour.

    Part 3 then cites many examples of famous businesspeople who've used humour to make the workplace a better place and more productive.

    Part 4 has more detailed anecdotes and puts out some cautionary tales of when humour failed and what to do about it.

    Finally, there is a short test to determine which of the four types of humour is your natural type.

    Part 2 is the most useful part, and the instructions and hints are clear and actionable, which is the ideal in business and public life. I kept thinking of similar examles and lessons from my own working life.

  • Tiffany

    I really enjoyed this on audio. It was like listening to a super interesting research paper that I totally agreed with. I liked the ideas on how to become a little bit funnier. Great anecodotes to illustrate their points.

  • Krista Lukas

    I learned about this book on Hidden Brain, a podcast that asks questions about human behavior and explores possible answers by interviewing experts. In this case, the topic was humor, and the expert was Jennifer Aaker, coauthor and co-teacher with Naomi Bagdonas, of a course on humor at the Stanford school of business. Because of this, many of the examples were aimed at the workplace and at corporate leaders. However, as the book subtitle implies, everyone can use more humor and laughter in life. Highlights for me included the humor cliff, anatomy of funny, humor fails, humor styles, ways to incorporate humor into the workplace, and the importance of play as a learning tool. Also, the underlying fact that life should be fun, no matter how hard it is. Even if you’re stuck at an airport, you can have some fun while ordering an apple from a kiosk. Even if you’re a prisoner, you can find things to laugh at—having taught full-time at high school for juvenile offenders and done a writing residency at a medium security detention facility, I can tell you that spontaneous funny things happened.

    As stated in chapter 4, “the goal is not necessarily to tell jokes or even be funny—it’s to make more human connection during everyday moments, and to be more productive and effective (not to mention less bored) in the process.”

    There are some dumb, groan-inducing jokes that annoyed me at first, but looking back, remind me of an overarching message: lighten up for levity’s sake! Which makes me think that Levity would be a fine sounding first name.

  • Jason Shaw

    Humor, Seriously helped me realize how deficient my life is of humor, and gave me a few simple ideas and areas in which I can insert it. One of the chapters was about emails at work. The authors produced a few emails I get quite often with nearly the exact wording. Whenever I get these emails, I get a kick out of how supremely generic they sound and, if I ever get around to having to send one, how mine would be different.

    Then I thought, "why wait?"

    Today I sent an email I have to send every month to a colleague, updating some cash flow forecasts. I'll give it here since it was brief.

    "Hopefully, you're having a splendid afternoon.

    If not, here are some updated estimates of our internally managed assets that may help to cheer you up.

    Cheers!"

    Most times, I simply get a response similar to "Got it. Updated." This time, I got "Thanks, you just made my day. 😊"

    In affect, this made my day, too. It was great inserting a little levity into my everyday work activities. The book does a great job in explaining how much more significant of a difference the accumulation of these acts can make.

  • Dax

    3.5 stars

    Solid primer on using the fine art of comedy to connect with those you work with. The authors have no expectation that the reader is automatically funny but instead that we all have the ability to ease tension through honest jokes. They speak to the perks of punching up but never down and many other useful tools. They have some fun with the book and through the audiobook. It was interesting the questionnaire they poised to the reader about how often you laugh. Turns out no matter how depressed I am I will always be down for a laugh - and joyful on the ones I brought to fruition. My life motto and one I feel they authors will strongly endorse:

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  • Sian

    An interesting book about how we can insert humour and levity in the everyday.

    Those who have rated this low seem to have missed the purpose of this book. It was not intended to be a laugh a minute read, instead a guide to how we can bring humour into more serious situations and how it can help relationships inside and outside of the office.

    This book gives an insight into when and how we can add levity to our day to day and encourages us to notice moments of joy we may otherwise miss.

  • Chelsea Thompson-O'Brien

    The reviews for this seem to have missed the point, but I listened to the audiobook so maybe that changed it. As with all self-help adjacent content, take what works and leave the rest. This was a culmination of a lot of painstaking lessons, focusing on levity and humour as means of establishing connection and respect. Loved it.

  • Trevor Atwood

    A very good source for understanding the benefits and power of humor, especially in the workplace...but also in life (see title).

    Biggest takeaway- I’ve been right about humor all along!!!! Even back to my middle & high school class clown days.

  • Jessica Lach

    This was a good reminder about the importance of humor in leadership positions. It validated my thoughts on how to humor is actually a very powerful tool in professional settings. Idk it was a good quick read.

  • Iva Jar

    Ale jo, budiž. V rámci naučného žánru je to zajímavé.
    Zjistíte že nemusí být člověk až tak moc vtipný, ale jde o lehkost projevu, která způsobí lepší náladu na obou stranách. Už pro tuto pasáž stojí za to knihu si přečíst.