Title | : | The Things You Should Not Say: Do Not Say These Things To The Couple Who Expecting Their Third Child |
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Language | : | English |
Format Type | : | Kindle Edition |
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Publication | : | Published May 30, 2017 |
The Things that Should NOT be Said to a Couple who Waiting for their Third Child
Since I am a father, I have always generated a lot of curiosity the issue of the number of socially accepted children, and at least in Spain, I realized that what society sees best is that you have two children, a boy, and a girl: the couple.
Not having children is not very well seen; To have one is to have fulfilled, but people tend to treat you as selfish, for not giving a little brother to your son (as if the second children were a gift to the first); Having two is great if they are of different sex, and not bad if they are of the same sex; And having three is already playing with fire, because you expose yourself to people telling you what you think about it (and more than three is already a madhouse).
Well, they always tell you what they think about everything ... that people get into everything, but nobody has given them a candle at the funeral. But when you wait for the third, they stay at ease. They get the best of themselves. So today we are going to explain about the things that should not be said to a couple who are waiting for their third child.
1. Another? I couldn't!
You are saying that you are going to have a third child, and yes, some give you congratulations, but many are quick to put yourself in your place and face horror, terror, misunderstanding or surprise.
And then they say something like that you are foolish and what you thought when you had relationships as if you were two teenagers of 14 years who just saw the positive in the pregnancy test.
Okay, they don't tell you that exactly, but it's what comes out of "How brave you are," "Crazy or Me," "I Get Something," "If I know, abortion," or "I could not agree with three ... my mother."
Since I am a father, I have always generated a lot of curiosity the issue of the number of socially accepted children, and at least in Spain, I realized that what society sees best is that you have two children, a boy, and a girl: the couple.
Not having children is not very well seen; To have one is to have fulfilled, but people tend to treat you as selfish, for not giving a little brother to your son (as if the second children were a gift to the first); Having two is great if they are of different sex, and not bad if they are of the same sex; And having three is already playing with fire, because you expose yourself to people telling you what you think about it (and more than three is already a madhouse).
Well, they always tell you what they think about everything ... that people get into everything, but nobody has given them a candle at the funeral. But when you wait for the third, they stay at ease. They get the best of themselves. So today we are going to explain about the things that should not be said to a couple who are waiting for their third child.
1. Another? I couldn't!
You are saying that you are going to have a third child, and yes, some give you congratulations, but many are quick to put yourself in your place and face horror, terror, misunderstanding or surprise.
And then they say something like that you are foolish and what you thought when you had relationships as if you were two teenagers of 14 years who just saw the positive in the pregnancy test.
Okay, they don't tell you that exactly, but it's what comes out of "How brave you are," "Crazy or Me," "I Get Something," "If I know, abortion," or "I could not agree with three ... my mother."