| Title | : | Love Your Kids: Punishment For Your Kids Should Be Considerate |
| Author | : | |
| Rating | : | |
| ISBN | : | - |
| Language | : | English |
| Format Type | : | Kindle Edition |
| Number of Pages | : | 10 |
| Publication | : | Published May 29, 2017 |
Why Make Your Child Believe that You No Longer Want Him is an Inadequate Punishment
When a child has a poor behavior that shames us because we are responsible for his education and that makes us feel bad because he stops respecting others, we begin to think about what is the measure that we should take to prevent him from continuing and letting him know that this behavior is unacceptable.
No one is perfect, but the extent of making a child believe that we withdraw our love, that we no longer want him, that we will only love him if he behaves as we expect him is very dangerous: a father thought that leaving alone in the mountain his 7-year-old son was a good idea to punish him and has been missing for days.
I just wanted to scare him.
It happened in a forest on a mountain in northern Japan, as we read in the Free Press. On one of the roads, the parents stopped their car and made the child go down as a reprimand for having behaved badly.
Apparently, the boy had been throwing stones at other cars and even people as they passed the day by a river, and as a corrective measure chose to give him a little scare.
About five o'clock last Saturday, they left him alone on the road to try to teach him a little discipline. Five minutes later, on his return, not only was he no longer where he was left, but incapable of finding him.
When a child has a poor behavior that shames us because we are responsible for his education and that makes us feel bad because he stops respecting others, we begin to think about what is the measure that we should take to prevent him from continuing and letting him know that this behavior is unacceptable.
No one is perfect, but the extent of making a child believe that we withdraw our love, that we no longer want him, that we will only love him if he behaves as we expect him is very dangerous: a father thought that leaving alone in the mountain his 7-year-old son was a good idea to punish him and has been missing for days.
I just wanted to scare him.
It happened in a forest on a mountain in northern Japan, as we read in the Free Press. On one of the roads, the parents stopped their car and made the child go down as a reprimand for having behaved badly.
Apparently, the boy had been throwing stones at other cars and even people as they passed the day by a river, and as a corrective measure chose to give him a little scare.
About five o'clock last Saturday, they left him alone on the road to try to teach him a little discipline. Five minutes later, on his return, not only was he no longer where he was left, but incapable of finding him.
