Word by Word: The Secret Life of Dictionaries by Kory Stamper


Word by Word: The Secret Life of Dictionaries
Title : Word by Word: The Secret Life of Dictionaries
Author :
Rating :
ISBN : 110187094X
ISBN-10 : 9781101870945
Language : English
Format Type : Hardcover
Number of Pages : 296
Publication : First published March 14, 2017
Awards : Goodreads Choice Award Nonfiction (2017)

Brimming with intelligence and personality, a vastly entertaining account of how dictionaries are made a must read for word mavens.

While most of us might take dictionaries for granted, the process of writing them is in fact as lively and dynamic as language itself. With sharp wit and irreverence, Kory Stamper cracks open the complex, obsessive world of lexicography--from the agonizing decisions about what and how to define, to the knotty questions of usage in an ever-changing language. She explains why small words are the most difficult to define (have you ever tried to define is ?), how it can take nine months to define a single word, and how our biases about language and pronunciation can have tremendous social influence. Throughout, Stamper brings to life the hallowed halls (and highly idiosyncratic cubicles) of Merriam-Webster, a world inhabited by quirky, erudite individuals who quietly shape the way we communicate. A sure delight for all lovers of words, Word by Word might also quietly improve readers grasp and use of the English language."


Word by Word: The Secret Life of Dictionaries Reviews


  • Hannah Greendale


    Click here to watch a video review of on my BookTube channel, From Beginning to Bookend.




    For many people, the dictionary is a relic once used by grandparents and is now, in its retirement, relegated to the dishonorable position of dust-covered doorstop. Lexicographers – those quiet, anti-social compilers of dictionaries – are, presumably, a thing of the past. Not so, proclaims Kory Stamper, longstanding lexicographer for Merriam-Webster. In this rousing debut that unveils the complicated craft of defining words and the science of unearthing the etymological origins of their meaning, Stamper proves the dictionary is a lexical reference that’s long been taken for granted.

    Stamper sets the tone in her opening chapter, giving readers a first taste of what’s to come: a candid portrayal of the ins and outs of lexicography, delivered with sharp wit and exactitude. Recalling the day she was hired by Merriam-Webster, Stamper invites readers to the hushed confines and inelegant cubicles of the “modest two-story brick building” in Springfield, Massachusetts where word mavens work, in some instances for months at a time, to extricate the definition, pronunciation, and etymological origin of individual words. Such work requires a reverence for the English language not found in the average person.

    Lexicographers spend a lifetime swimming through the English language in a way that no one else does; the very nature of lexicography demands it. English is a beautiful, bewildering language, and the deeper you dive into it, the more effort it takes to come up to the surface for air.

    Wading through the English language to pinpoint the perfect definition of a word requires a noiseless work environment. The “weird sort of monastic” devotion lexicographers give to the English language, and their hallowed approach to the daily challenges of providing the public with an up-to-date dictionary, lends itself to a work space that demands people speak in whispers and celebrate their lexical triumphs with silent fist pumps. How else, Stamper asks, could a lexicographer be expected to determine the difference between the words measly, small, and teensy?

    There’s nothing worse than being just a syllable’s length away from the perfect, Platonic ideal of the definition for “measly,” being able to see it crouching in the shadows of your mind, only to have it skitter away when your co-worker begins a long and loud conversation that touches on the new coffee filters, his colonoscopy, and the chances that the Sox will go all the way this year.

    Colonoscopies are just the beginning of Stamper’s comedic contributions. She blends sophistication with humor at every turn, making the act of reading about dictionaries an absolute delight. Stamper was drawn to the life of a lexicographer, she asserts, recounting an incident when she embarrassed her daughter in public:

    “Are you taking pictures for work again?”
    “Just one.”
    “Oh my God,” [my daughter] moaned, “can you ever just, like, live like a normal person?”
    “Hey, I didn’t choose the dictionary life – ”
    “Just stop – ”
    “ – the dictionary life – ”
    “MOM –”
    “ – chose me,” I finished, and she threw her head back and sighed in exasperation.


    Many of Stamper’s amusing asides are delivered as footnotes, such as her reaction to the 1721 edition of Nathaniel Bailey’s An [sic] Universal Etymological English Dictionary, whose subtitle goes on for another two hundred and twenty-two words and garners Stamper’s facetious remark: They sure don’t title dictionaries like they used to.

    facetious \ fuh-see-shuh s \ adj: 1: not meant to be taken seriously or literally 2: amusing; humorous 3: lacking serious intent; concerned with something nonessential, amusing, or frivolous.

    It stands to reason that a person who specializes in defining words would demonstrate an exemplary understanding of the English language, and Stamper more than proves herself a talented wordsmith. Her use of ten-dollar words is employed in a friendly manner. Some words are defined in the footnotes, while others remain undefined and will, fittingly, send many readers running to the dictionary. While the procedure for compiling defined words into a viable resource is fascinating, Word by Word would not be as entertaining were it not infused with Stamper’s snarky personality.

    The work of a lexicographer, however, requires that the person – rather, the lexicographer’s personality – be removed from the equation. “You must set aside your own linguistic and lexical prejudices about what makes a word worthy, beautiful, or right, to tell the truth about language,” Stamper explains, because writing definitions isn’t about making hard and fast rules for a word – as so many people are inclined to think – but rather, it’s an act of recording how words are being used in speech and, more importantly, in publications.

    The common misperception that lexicographers are the definitive authority on the English language – whose definitions and pronunciations of words are akin to law ordained by divine beings – has resulted in more than a few letters being sent by confused or outraged individuals to Merriam-Webster’s physical and digital inboxes. Perhaps the most compelling example of this concerns the 2003 release of the Eleventh Collegiate dictionary in which the word “marriage” was redefined to include the sub-sense (a secondary meaning of a word): the state of being united to a person of the same sex in a relationship like that of a traditional marriage. This new sub-sense was added because in the late 1990’s, when revisions to the Collegiate Dictionary began, the issue of same-sex marriage was widely debated, prevalent not just in speech but also in nearly every major news publication.

    Six years after its publication, one person noticed the new sub-sense in the Eleventh Collegiate dictionary’s definition of “marriage,” took offense to it, and launched a fiery write-in campaign that inundated Stamper’s inbox with hundreds of complaints and accusations against Merriam-Webster, along with numerous threats to harm Stamper. These angry letter-writers maintained a strident adherence to the misconception that lexicographers somehow shape language, culture, and religion. Further, they failed to understand that the very act of writing about gay marriage (regardless of the vehemence they assigned to the idea of same-sex couples being legally wed) worked to create citational evidence of the word “marriage” being widely used in relation to gay couples. In other words, the efforts made by the appalled letter-writers indirectly worked to validate that the word “marriage” had, in fact, been due for a revisal of its definition to encompass its many usages.

    From dealing with irate letter-writers to spending months teasing out the proper definition of overly complicated words like “is” or “a,” the work of a lexicographer is thankless. Lexicographers don’t have their names assigned to the dictionaries on which they work tirelessly. And the English language, fluid in nature and ever changing, never stops demanding that dedicated word connoisseurs hunch over their desks and puzzle out the most effective definition to encapsulate a words new usage.

    When the dictionary finally hits the market, there is no grand party or celebration. (Too loud, too social.) We’re already working on the next update to that dictionary, because language has moved on. There will never be a break. A dictionary is out of date the minute that it’s done.

    Word by Word is a sublime romp through the secret life of dictionaries; a guaranteed rapturous read for word lovers, grammar fanatics, and linguists.

    -
    Kory Stamper makes regular blog posts about language and lexicography on her
    website.

  • Warwick

    In 2016 we had a memoir from the chief editor of the OED –
    The Word Detective – and now here's one from an editor at Merriam-Webster. Truly, dic-lit has never been so popular. Where John Simpson was personable and thorough – if a little sober, perhaps – Kory Stamper is all breathless enthusiasm; at times this means she comes across (quite wrongly) as more ingénue than expert, but she more than makes up for it with several brilliant case studies of how lexicography interacts with real people and a real, changing society.

    This book is, I think, the better of the two. When Simpson talked about the challenges of redefining ‘marriage’, he was professionally calm and considered (‘The definition of marriage remains a hotly contested issue, and the lexicographer needs to remain absolutely neutral when crafting a definition…’). But Stamper takes you through not just the lexicographical issues, but also the personal ones – the direct abuse, the stress and anxiety of fielding relentless write-in campaigns from outraged conservatives:

    I took a deep breath, and began searching through my e-mail replies while half of my brain ran circles around my head, screaming in terror. […] I looked at the very first e-mail that came in after the article ran. It began: “Sirs: Your company decision to change the definition of the word ‘marriage’ to include the same-sex perversion is an utter disgrace.”


    The pitfalls around ‘marriage’ are well-known to people who are into lexicography (a smallish group, admittedly) – more fascinating to me was her revision of the word ‘nude’ following a 2015 BuzzFeed video,
    ‘Black Women Try "Nude" Fashion’. The sense in question is sense 3 of the online dictionary at Merriam-Webster.com: ‘having the color of a white person's skin’, designed to cover such things as ‘nude’ underwear.

    As Stamper says, this wording ‘needlessly racializes something that doesn't need to be racialized’, and the women in the video are quite offended by it. But you can see the problem – it can't simply be written as meaning ‘the colour of a person's skin’ since, as it happens, most of the fashion industry is calibrated to whiteness, and it would be equally offensive to pretend this wasn't the case.

    Stamper takes you through the various proposed revisions that went back and forth between her and other editors, along with her frenzied attempts to gather real-world use – snapping photos of nude eyeshadow in the supermarket with her daughter, ploughing through examples on Google Images – until she uncovered plenty of evidence that ‘nude’ can, in fact, often refer to darker skin tones. The
    final definition is:

    having a color (such as pale beige or tan) that matches the wearer's skin tones · nude pantyhose · nude lipstick


    This is a really good definition, better than the OED's from 2002 (‘Of a pinkish beige colour; flesh-coloured’), which just shows the importance and the interest in consulting more than one dictionary. Following the long, complicated process by which this def came into being is, for anyone interested in words, fascinating and instructive.

    Though I'm not the biggest fan of Merriam-Webster's straight dictionaries, their editorial team has a special place in my heart just because of
    Merriam-Webster's Dictionary of English Usage, which is not only by far the best usage guide ever published, it's one of the best books you can get on the English language full stop. Its editor, E. Ward Gilman, turns out to be the man who trained Stamper in the craft of defining. (She calls him Gil! This is the kind of thing that makes me starry-eyed and jealous!) His particular brand of calm, evidence-based descriptivism is an inspiration, and you can see it running through all of the Merriam-Webster output (in contrast to, for instance, the creepy prescriptivism of the American Heritage Dictionary).

    Again, Stamper describes her journey towards this understanding in a very personal way, by recalling her reaction, as a newish lexicographer, to an email complaining that the word ‘irregardless’ had been entered into their dictionary.

    I rolled my eyes: obviously “irregardless” isn't a valid word, and so it wouldn't be entered into our dictionary. This correspondent had clearly just picked up any old crap dictionary, stumbled across an entry for the nonword “irregardless,” and assumed that we were at fault. Totally frustrating.

    I drafted a reply that stated it wasn't in the dictionary, and to prove it, you can visit our website and search our online dictionary for the word, where you will find the following note…. Here I needed the language that we used at that point in time when someone looked up a word that wasn't entered in our online dictionary. I opened up the site, typed in “irregardless,” and promptly lost it: “irregardless” was entered in our dictionary. So great was my surprise that I actually said, out loud and at a normal volume, “You have got to be shitting me.”


    I don't know if she's exaggerating her surprise for the sake of the anecdote, but it does make a nice starting point for her progression to being America's foremost expert on ‘irregardless’ – she was eventually the one wheeled in front of the camera, and unleashed on social media, to give its history and provenance whenever some new debate about it flared up. On a personal level, she says, she dislikes the word; but professionally speaking, there's no justification whatever for saying that it's not valid, or incorrect, or uneducated. And that's the point.

    Outrage about dictionaries generally comes from a misunderstanding over what they do. Most dictionaries aspire to be neutral records of how language is used, whereas a lot of people see them as arbiters of correctness – gatekeepers for what is and is not acceptable. This gets it precisely backwards. If people use something, it will end up in the dictionary whether you think it's ‘illogical’ or ‘offensive’, or ‘a gross error’ or not. Just last month, I see that the OED added entries for ‘cromulent’ and ‘embiggen’, thus somewhat ruining the famous
    Simpsons joke. (They also created entries for ‘homoromantic’, ‘binge-watch’, ‘impactful’, ‘microaggression’ and ‘upskirt’, among 900 other new additions.)

    For anyone looking for an introduction to these ideas, this is the perfect place to start – an entertaining canter through some of the eccentricities of this language, and a great reminder of the human personality and craft behind that dusty old Webster's Third propping your study door open. Irregardless of your views on language, there's a lot to learn here for anyone.

  • Olive Fellows (abookolive)

    I absolutely adored it. It might not be for anyone who doesn't enjoy minutiae or who doesn't have a thing for words, but this was right up my alley.

  • Snotchocheez

    4 stars

    This totally satisfied my inner "word-nerd". Lexicographer/Merriam-Webster Dictionary-writer (and blogger/vlogger) Kory Stamper provides, with Word by Word, a humorous and fascinating look at the dying art of dictionary construction. It's not nearly as stuffy and dull as the subject matter might indicate.

  • Carlos

    I liked this book a lot, but I do have to admit that it was a dense one and it appeals to a sparse group of people. This book needs to be read slow to be enjoyed in a more satisfying manner . I liked how the author made us feel her love for the English Language and how she applied that to her job as editor of one of the most know dictionaries out here . If you consider yourself a logophile , then this book is definitely for you. Not the most exciting one but full of a minutiae of information that will leave you thinking ... why don't I work there ? .

  • Kalin

    A priceless weapon in the war against linguistic pedantry. (But not much use to a professional linguist: it's mostly 101 and 201.)

    Behold:

    ~ For fun, I'm going to list here all the words and phrases I've learnt from this book:

    chaw
    board book
    scleroderma
    cacafuego
    kegger
    brownnoser
    lickspittle
    lexophile
    colloq
    soap (= soap opera)
    tweedy
    (at) full tilt
    blither
    flop sweat
    want ad
    to deadpan
    oriel (window)
    echoic
    fusty
    glut
    to bung
    the heebie-jeebies
    taupe
    echoey
    bugger all
    minyan
    sprachgefühl
    advisedly
    flash-fry
    whoop it up
    swank
    a foil (~ contrast)
    go/run to seed
    finagle
    get bent
    whip-smart
    cri de coeur
    shake out
    foofaraw
    scare quotes
    onymous
    chancery
    level best
    a lick of
    like gangbusters
    transmission error (= scribal error)
    issuance
    foreignism
    the whole (kit and) caboodle
    solecism
    ne plus ultra
    of-the-moment
    snoot (= snob)
    poniard
    dubiosity
    complainant
    button it, button your mouth/lip
    yap (= mouth)
    unthaw
    no dice
    fustigate
    potamology, potamologist
    Ebonics
    uptalk
    bête noire
    pre-trial deposition
    claims adjuster
    cromulent

    dog whistle
    nebbish
    down-home
    meet (= suitable)
    nutbar
    ravening
    neck and neck
    a gas (= a delight)
    epistemophilic
    edge out
    whiffle
    sniffy
    chisel in
    squidgy
    bear out
    hazing
    logophile
    youngie
    horndog
    muckety-muck
    spackle
    hot rod
    drivetrain
    ga(c)k
    ho-bag
    copy (-> copywriter)
    hangnail
    fustian
    give sb the side-eye
    strains [of music]
    cover one's ass
    lightfaced, lightface
    megillah
    Do you even English?
    oenophile
    staying power
    snollygoster
    trot sth out

    jugate
    remit (~ designated area of activity)
    ostensive definition
    snickerdoodle
    piece (= female sexual partner)
    bupkes
    futz
    chesterfield
    davenport
    settee
    squab
    precis
    postpositively <-> prepositively
    holdover
    wheelhouse
    fascinator
    scuff
    pant-hoot
    pack in
    miserere
    gobs of
    tromp
    rhadamanthine
    vecturist
    ticker-tape
    put sth to bed
    sphygmomanometer
    unrufflable
    whelp
    liner notes
    mash note
    linguistic reclamation (= reappropriation, resignification)
    squonk
    all wet
    hedge (~ dodge)
    gussy (up)
    rando
    beige (= vanilla)
    deep waters
    originalism
    trick sth out
    dickishness
    when the rubber meets the road
    truck in sth
    buck against sth
    au courant
    blench
    wend
    beyond the pale
    squiggly
    arrant
    imprimatur
    passel
    double-dome
    pearl clutching
    make it snow
    have it in for sb
    shit/turd-stirrer
    burn the biscuits
    dope slap
    read sth into sth
    wevs (= whatever)
    obvi (= obviously)
    noogie
    jimmies
    cosset
    diddly-squat
    herd cats
    obelus
    metathesis (NB stress)
    anecdata
    bubba
    mush mouth
    malamute
    be cooking (with gas)
    put one's oar in
    brainpan
    retronym
    tired: beat, wiped, whipped, laid out, done in, dead
    make the big leagues

    hootamaganzy
    jerkery
    encomium
    faff (about/around)
    borborygmus
    dead-cat bounce
    rassle
    unkenned
    cultivative
    that's/them's the breaks
    like calls unto like, deep calls unto deep
    jiggery-pokery

    ~ In case the above words haven't been fun enough, Stamper smites with sentences as well:

    Lexicography moves so slowly that scientists classify it as a solid.


    ~ Brethren and sister...n(?) linguists! Have you ever shed blood and tears in the war of prescriptivism against descriptivism?

    Well, even if so, you've shed nothing. The mighty go straight for the fire and brimstone:

    In a letter to his publisher, E. B. White, the second half of the famous Strunk and White responsible for the best-selling writing guide The Elements of Style, beautifully expresses the modern complaint against descriptivism:
    I have been sympathetic all along with your qualms about “The Elements of Style,” but I know that I cannot, and will-shall not, attempt to adjust the unadjustable Mr. Strunk to the modern liberal of the English Department, the anything-goes fellow. Your letter expresses contempt for this fellow, but on the other hand you seem to want his vote. I am against him, temperamentally and because I have seen the work of his disciples, and I say the hell with him.

    Descriptivists, those anything-goes hippies: we have seen their work, and right-thinking people everywhere say to hell with them.
    Now, as a lexicographer, you are one.




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  • Anne ✨ Finds Joy

    The book you didn't even know you wanted to read! Who would have thought a book about dictionaries and lexicographers could be so completely enjoyable and immensely entertaining! I would not have immediately gravitated to a book like this, imagining that it would be much too dry, and better suited for hard-core word nerds and academics! But when a few GR friends gave it glowing recommendations, using words such as ‘comedic’ , ‘fascinating’, and ‘candid’ in their reviews, I was intrigued. I mean, I hadn’t even heard of the term lexicographer before! I knew I had to AT LEAST read a chapter or two to see what it was all about. I admit I fully expected I’d get bored quickly and figured I’d get a little practice with the art of ‘skimming’. Boy, was I wrong…

    The author, Kory Stamper, may be a word-nerd of the highest order, but she's a hip and funny one! She had no qualms (see the fancy word I used there?) poking fun at the lexicographer personality, at amusing origins of words, and at misconceptions around words believed to be ‘made-up’ and as such not belonging in the dictionary.

    “Irregardless” is a made-up word that was entered into the dictionary through constant use; that’s pretty much how this racket works. All words are made-up: Do you think we find them fully formed on the ocean floor, or mine for them in some remote part of Wales?

    Kory opens the reader’s eyes to the realization that a dictionary is less a judge of ‘good and proper english’ , as it is a living record of the actual words in use in a society, and the varied, ever-changing meanings applied throughout that society’s culture over time.

    You can trust the reviews that this book is truly not just for hard-core word-nerds. Anyone with even a mild interest in the English language will enjoy Kory’s entertaining stories from the world of lexicography, and her informal and candid approach.

    “Who thought that “pumpernickel” was a good name for a dark rye bread? Because when you trace the word back to its German origins, you find it means “fart goblin,” and now you cannot help but blench and giggle whenever you see pumpernickel.”

    While there's a sprinkling of moments that are slower and dig a smidge deeper than you might have wanted to delve into, overall the book's entertaining moments are frequent, and you’ll be surprised when you reach the end that it came upon you so fast.

    Audio Notes: Kory narrates the audiobook herself, and does an outstanding job! Her vibrancy and passion shine through in her narration, and you get a wonderful sense of her appreciation for the funnier side of her job and of all things English language in general.

    Trigger alert: there are some swear words written/talked about in the book.. Because of course, those same words are in the dictionary too, right ?! :)

  • Katerina

    3.5
    Хоть я и фанат словаря Merriam-Webster, я немного разочарована книгой одной из его редакторок (почему-то уверена, что, говори Стэмпер по-русски, она непременно бы использовала феминитивы). Сразу оговорюсь, почему. Мне показалось, что местами она слишком уж пытается подсюсюкнуть массовому читателю фривольным стилем и матерщиной. Я per se не против, но тут уж выглядит, будто автор оправдывается, что пишет словари, и всячески пытается стать своей в доску для простого фермера, который купит их словарь за 26.99.

    Тем не менее, есть много интересного!

    Например:

    — лексикографом в MW может стать любой человек с высшим образованием и родным английским. В команде — историки, биологи, экономисты, математики, библеисты и вообще кого только нет. Лингвистов, говорят, маловато.

    — создание словарей — это, в первую очередь, бизнес. Именно в коммерческих целях компания содержит штат людей, которые, едва выпустив одну редакцию словаря, тут же принимаются за новую.

    — лексикографы обязаны отвечать на все имейлы с вопросами и комментариями, которые приходят в редакцию (не пишите им, если очень не пригорело)

    — писать новую редакцию начинают от буквы Н и далее по алфавиту: в начале работы ещё не совсем понятен, каким будет стиль, не сформированы гайдлайны, а все рецензенты начитают читать с начала, так что, пока дело дойдёт до А, у лексикографов уже будет выходить ладно и аккуратно))

    — лексикографы читают все надписи везде, где только видят — на упаковке хлопьев, на шампуне, на доске объявлений на остановке — и подбирают мусорные рекламные листовки, если там встретилось неожиданное словоупотребление. Тут им от меня high five!

    — англоговорящие люди не любят слово moist (yew, moist!), но самую лютую ненависть у многих вызывает слово irregardless — а у Кори есть аргументы в его защиту.

    People who visit find it very weird, 'cause it's a whole bunch of people sitting in cubicles very quiet, not talking to each other. Everyone who works there — and everyone who does lexicography — really does it because it's this beautiful puzzle, and you can't do this work and not love English somehow. Otherwise it would just drive you insane, because it's so tedious and so detail-oriented. But we really all sort of have this strong affection for this language that a lot of people feel is really unlovely and unlovable.

  • Jessica J.

    This was a fun, fascinating read that gives you some insight into the process of making the Merriam Webster dictionary. Kory Stamper breaks down how decisions are made regarding what goes into the dictionary (it's descriptive, not prescriptive!) as well as how lexicographers write definitions and example phrases--mindful to avoid personal bias. She gets into the differences between lexicographers' and grammarians' views on the English language and examines how words evolve over time and across dialects. She talks about communication they receive, from people asking questions like where to buy something or people who think they invented a word or know best how it should be used.

    Though she didn't get into whatever genius runs their goddamn Twitter account, which is what I want to be when I grow up.

    Despite the fact it covers some hardcore word nerdery (or perhaps because of that), it's very informal and self-effacing in its tone. It's not stiff at all, as you might expect. Stamper writes in a conversational tone that suggests that her normal kind of conversation is a little quirky and hyper, laughing at her own weird jokes and and a learned ability to shrug off the people who don't find her funny. It's a little disorganized, though, bouncing around between ideas without a clear sense of structure. And I felt that some of the chapters were kind of skimmable--pronunciation isn't that interesting, even if it's important to dictionaries.

    There's a lot of little tidbits that I loved from here, including her horror at people who say nonsense like "done work" (I'm looking at you, Philly and South Jersey, and your disdain for prepositions), but my favorite piece of trivia from this book, because I am never going to be mature ever, no matter how old I get: "Who thought that 'pumpernickel' was a good name for dark rye bread? Because when you trace the word back to its German origins, you find it means 'fart goblin.'"

    Overall, a fun read for anyone who loves language.

  • Jill Hutchinson

    I would wager that if you look at a list of the hardest jobs in the world, lexicologist would not be on it….well, it should be. These dedicated people are insane geniuses whose entire lives are made up of words; they wake up in the middle of the night to jot down a thought or dream that they had which might help them in editing the dictionary; they listen to the conversation of others to find clues as to how English is being used; they read about new sciences that may bring a new word to the language. This book, written by one of these geniuses is a must-read for those of us who love words. Dictionaries, whether printed or electronic are constantly being updated and it falls to the lexicographer to be sure that all nuances of language are covered.

    Let’s take the word, “word”…..defined as “a speech sound”. OK, that seems alright but wait…..what about “you have my word of honor”, or “the word is on the street” or the exclamation “Oh, my word”? And that is just the beginning of the work that the lexicographer has to do when working on one particular word. It can take weeks to clearly define its use. And what about slang words or profanity? They are a part of the language as are words that aren’t words at all such as “irregardless” and “’aint”. And we are told that the shortest words are the hardest words…..a, an, the, is…….because we just take them for granted and they are seldom referenced in the dictionary but they have to be there if the dictionary is to be complete.

    The author takes us through the process of definition and the use of language and does it with humor. I can’t imagine how difficult it must be to be a lexicographer but she seems to have kept her sanity. Be warned that this is a slow read and it helps to know a bit about grammar and how to diagram a sentence. But it is worth it and may cause you to think twice before you use a certain word or phrase.

  • Suzze Tiernan

    When I was in about 6th grade, when my class went to the library, I would take the 6" (or so) thick dictionary off its podium and sit with it, looking for words I didn't know. So, when I saw the advance copy of this book, I HAD to read it. It's just lovely. Written by a lexicographer at Miriam-Webster, it's an ode to words, definitions, and pronunciations. I love the acknowledgements, written as definitions.

  • Louise

    Kory Stamper takes you inside Merriam Webster to show you how their dictionary is made. You can see how the lexicographers and the company they work for are dedicated to their product.

    Dictionary users are usually not aware of all that goes into creating these reference works. Many believe that dictionaries are a source for “regulating” language and would be surprised to know that their role is to describe how language is used. Most surely will not know how a publisher decides when a new word is worthy of inclusion or that one lexicographer only produces 250 entries a year.

    Each part of writing an entry is tedious. Stamper shows how once you decide a word is a noun, verb and adjective uses come to your attention. Examples of a word’s use must be short and boring. A pronunciation expert listens to speeches, movies, YouTube and co-workers who read from flash cards to write the sounds using proprietary markings.

    Throughout, Stamper shows the problem of writing a definition. You can’t use the word to define the word, but in the case of compound words, like surfboard, you can as long as the word part you use is in the dictionary. Modernizing definitions for words like “marriage” can rile the right wing media making life miserable and frightening for a lexicographer. Phrasal verbs derived from generic words like “take” can “take weeks”. Defining words seeps into the lives of lexicographers who surreptitiously snap photos of advertising.

    I was surprised that M-W maintains policies long ago discarded elsewhere in downsizing and budget cutting. Every letter M-W receives is personally answered, not by a PR department, but by actual lexicographers. M-W has what appears to be a lengthy training period and its training manuals are very detailed. Neither has it skimped on its research process and maintains extensive paper files from the past.

    If you are interested in words, you will enjoy this book.

  • Anna

    “Language moves much faster than lexicography. There are not enough of us around to even see every word in the language, let alone define every word in the language.”

    I could play it cool and say that Word by Word… is a truly insightful exploration of the neverending work of a lexicographer, delving into deeper issues of the English language, such as its history, politics, and essential slipperiness. Hell, I could go on and add how much I appreciated the author’s dry, pithy humour, her charming style, and pop-cultural references. But in all fairness, I loved it as much as I love reading dictionary entries, which is a lot.

    No sarcasm, just pure word nerd bliss!

    “People do not come to the dictionary for excitement and romance; that’s what encyclopedias are for.”

    It took me a while to finish it because I went through the notes and references, reread some of the chapters (particularly the ones on grammar, etymology, and pronunciation), then smiled when finally I got to the Acknowledgements part, which was written as alphabetized dictionary entries. Speaking of capital-n Nerd!

  • Joe Gaspard

    If you love dictionaries, you'll love this book. Written by a confirmed Descriptivist who cannot always control a bit of the Prescriptivist still lurking within. Here's a great paragraph from Stamper's book - If you like the paragraph, I'm betting you will like the book:

    We think of English as a fortress to be defended, but a better analogy is to think of English as a child. We love and nurture it into being, and once it gains gross motor skills, it starts going exactly where we don’t want it to go; it heads right for the goddamned electrical sockets. We dress it in fancy clothes and tell it to behave, and it comes home with its underwear on its head and wearing someone else’s socks. As English grows, it lives its own life, and this is right and healthy. Sometimes English does exactly what we think it should; sometimes it goes places we don’t like and thrives there in spite of all our worrying. We can tell it to clean itself up and act more like Latin; we can throw tantrums and start learning French instead. But we will never really be the boss of it. And that’s why it flourishes.

  • Toni

    Update: Kory Stamper is currently appearing on a new Netflex series about, ready: curse words, (the history of); hosted by Nicholas Cage (he's pretty good at this.), and various comedians. AND, a woman who has a Ph.D. in this very subject (or something close.) Check it out word lovers.

    I adore this book; more specifically, the audiobook. If Kory Stamper ever needs a side job, she definitely can become a narrator for audio books. I never realized the toil that goes into creating and maintaining a dictionary, whether in print or online. Excellent work lexicographers from Merriam Webster.

  • Margie

    4/16/2020: Update for word lovers! Kory Stamper is quoted in this L.A. Times article (4/15/2020) about newly coined pandemic words and existing medical terms that have become part of our everyday vocabulary:

    http://enewspaper.latimes.com/infinit...
    Have a "quarantini" on me!

    By turns funny, profane, geeky and enlightening, Kory Stamper, an editor at Merriam-Webster gives us an inside look at the travails of lexicographers in editing and putting together dictionaries such as the Eleventh edition of the 220,000 word MW Collegiate Dictionary in eighteen months. A self-professed lover of words who started reading road signs and words on salad-dressing bottles at age three, Kory Stamper landed her dream job as an editorial assistant at Merriam-Webster after ending her job interview as follows:

    "'I just,' I began, fanning my hands in front of me as if to waft intelligence my way. But it didn't come: all I had was the naked, heartfelt truth. 'I just love English,' I burst. 'I love it. I really, really love it.'" She started work at Merriam-Webster three weeks later.

    Stamper's experiences at MW are detailed in such chapters as "IRREGARDLESS: On Wrong Words," and "NUCLEAR: On Pronunciation." She covers everything from the history of dictionaries to the intricate and often tedious process of defining a single word (which might take nine months). Stamper reveals that the Eleventh edition of the MW Collegiate had only twenty editors reviewing 220,000 existing definitions, writing 10,000 new definitions, making 100,000 editorial changes with each change being reviewed a dozen times by ten editors. All this in eighteen months; mind-boggling!

    This book is meant to be read slowly, to be savored. It is not a quick read and when you are done, you might be tempted to start over so that you can absorb more of the fascinating and abundant details of Kory Stamper's world of words.

  • Andy

    fascinating
    adjective | fas·ci·nat·ing | \ˈfas-ˌnā-tiŋ, ˈfa-sə-ˌnā-\

    Definition of fascinating
    : extremely interesting or charming : captivating a fascinating documentary gave a fascinating account of the expedition

    That just about sums the whole book up. Interesting and very charming.

  • Carolyn

    What a treat

    The opening is hysterical. There are some slow early chapters but once you get into the book a bit it reads like a love letter to language, culture, hard work, and creativity. I thoroughly enjoyed Word by Word.

  • thefourthvine

    I loved this book in a way that makes me totally unqualified to recommend it to anyone.

    I can’t remember the last time I read a book and realized it was written by someone who thinks like me, someone who understands the English language almost the same way I do. In the middle of this book, my wife and I had this conversation:

    Me: She [Stamper] keeps saying things like “most people don’t think about grammar this way,” but I do!
    Her: You’re an academic editor. You basically have the same job she does.
    Me: No, it’s very different! She — hmm. I mean, it’s mostly different. Fairly different, anyway.
    Her: *snort*

    But I really did adore this. I loved her description of the process of learning what English grammar really is: a collapse of the wall built out of tiny blocks of rules that you’ve erected between you and incorrect usage. (Note: I sometimes think it would be more accurate to say “what English grammars really are,” because anyone whose job involves, in part, altering journal articles so they sound like they were written by a native speaker of Standard American English, even though no native speakers of that language exist or have ever existed, is very aware that there is not one single English grammar. It’s more like a collection of grammars sitting on each other’s shoulders and wearing one very large trenchcoat.)

    I also loved the behind-the-scenes look at the life of a lexicographer. Stamper talks about some of the more interesting definitions she’s dealt with in her career and the process of creating definitions and of creating a dictionary. She talks about the controversial words (“bitch,” in a chapter I found sad, “nude,” in a chapter that proves that BuzzFeed really is changing the language, and “marriage,” in a chapter that made me cringe in sympathy with her), and controversy in the dictionary world, and why dictionaries all use different systems to transcribe pronunciation. She also has some fascinating stories about the worst best idea in the world: that you can write in to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, and an actual lexicographer will read and answer your letters.

    The book is fascinating and funny. And, as I said, I loved it, but I probably shouldn’t recommend it. But I will. If you love language, if you use dictionaries, if you write things, this book is worth your time.

  • Deb (Readerbuzz) Nance

    This book is probably not a book for everybody. If you are the type of person who goes for action movies, for example, or loves to watch a good, hard game of football, well, you might just pass this book up.

    But if you have always secretly thought that it was be a fine, fine job to carefully investigate and define words, to search out just the right way to explain wards, to figure out how to pronounce words...if you are a person who loves to think about all the nuances associated with words...if you like to explore where words came from....yep, this just might be a book you'd enjoy.

    That's what Kory does for a living. She writes the dictionary. And in this book, she shares her work with us readers. No, it's not an action movie, and, no, it's not a game of football, but somehow Kory makes me know that her job is...well, fun.

  • Sasha Tagger

    I love reading about languages, their development, etymology etc. (I speak and read freely five languages, and understand more or less a few others). But this book is too wordy and rather boring. I gave up after the first 100 pages. Also, she uses too many rare or regional words I've never encountered before, while they contribute nothing to clarity or style, just showing up

  • Kim Clifton

    An incredibly thorough and fascinating look at the process of writing a dictionary, and a defense of the dictionary's job as a recorder of usage instead of a prescriber. I gave it five stars in appreciation for the intensive research that went into creating this, but four stars in terms of my actual interest in reading paragraphs full of citations or pronunciations. I enjoyed the parts that felt most like a memoir-- Stamper explaining how she got her job and Merriam-Webster or telling anecdotes of her definition-writing training classes or the hate mail she's received based on the definition of "marriage"-- however, the parts where Stamper goes deep into one word and traces its own defining history grow quickly tedious. I assume this is because the audiobook includes all the footnotes, and as a reader I would have had the option of skipping. Most enjoyable, though was Stamper's obvious love and knowledge of words (sprachgefühl must have appeared in every chapter) and her introverted-self-deprecating humor (she takes every opportunity possible to remind readers that lexicographers like thinking about words, but not necessarily saying them out loud). Probably the nerdiest book I will ever read, and I'm quite pleased I did.

  • Susan Albert

    Kory Stamper's book, Word by Word: The Secret Life of Dictionaries, lets me in on all the dirty little secrets of dictionary-making (a lot like making sausages, it turns out). Stamper reminds me of just how much fun people have with language, and how deeply we as readers are delighted when we are surprised by writers/speakers who are having linguistic fun. As Stamper says, we grew up with the idea that English is "a fortress to be defended," when a better analogy would be to think of it as a growing child, willful and impulsive. "We dress it in fancy clothes and tell it to behave, and it comes home with its underwear on its head and wearing someone else's socks. . . We will never really be the boss of it. And that's why it flourishes."

    I love this book. If you’re a word-nerd, you will love it, too. Guaranteed.

  • Bruna Miranda

    Provavelmente o livro mais nerd que já li na vida. Fiquei fascinada pelos conflitos em definir palavras, como funciona a produção e atualização de verbetes em dicionários.
    Muito divertido pra quem realmente curte inglês, palavras e lexicografia. Pra qualquer outra pessoa vai parecer a coisa mais estranha da Terra.

  • Sara

    Surprisingly moving, both for its unabashed love of words and language and for its description about how fraught words can be - politically, sexually, racially, socially.

    This book about how dictionaries are made, made me have the feels.

  • Annie

    A fun, informative, surprisingly unpretentious book. The author is very likeable and the material is nerdy as hell- but let’s face it, if you’re an active Goodreader, it’s a given you’re a nerd.

    From interesting borrowed words (“sprachgefuhl”) to seeing familiar words in totally new ways (I will never look at “the” the same way again), this book covers it all while managing to stay down-to-earth.

    For instance: joke is on grammar snobs, because “it’s” was the original proper possessive form of it (rather than “its tail,” back in the day it was “it’s tail)-- and in fact, this makes sense, when you think about the fact that nearly every other word becomes possessive by adding an apostrophe + s (“Tony’s dog” “the dog’s toy”).

    Ending a sentence with a preposition (in this case, called “the terminal preposition”) was perfectly acceptable until a particularly pedantic pedant named Dryden came along and decided he wanted to banish the practice, since Latin doesn’t do that- but of course, English and Latin are fundamentally different languages.

    I am with the author’s original feelings on this one, though: as much as she respected her role as dictionarierre, which is a descriptivist (English is used X way) rather than prescriptivist (English should be used Y way) job, she still refuseed to accept “irregardless” (ir- means “not” so irregardless should mean not regardless, which is a double negative, which makes no sense) for a long time. Girl, same. (See also: “inflammable” and “unthaw”).

    The coolest fun fact: in 2014, teenager Peaches Monroee posted a 6-second video describing her eyebrows as “on fleek” (first usage of the phrase). 5 months later, 10% of all Google searches worldwide were for “on fleek.”

    Let that sink in. Out of the billions of possible search terms, “on fleek” constituted TEN PERCENT.

    Definitely made me examine the words I use, and how I use them, and when I’m being an asshole and correct people, in a different, fresh way.

  • Imi

    "...the definition is an imperfect thing any way you look at it. A definition is an attempt to explain a word’s meaning using these certain conventions, and you have to distinguish between the definition of a word and the meaning of a word. The meaning is something that resides in the word, and the definition is a description of that. But a definition is an artificial thing."
    If you are in anyway interested in language, etymology, and the quirks of English, then read this book, as it's a whole lot of fun. Stamper is one of the hidden lexicographers that writes the dictionary. In this memoir, she covers, in some detail, how much work and decision making goes on behind the scenes, plus debunks many of the incorrect assumptions many people have about what the dictionary is actually for. Even when she covers fairly technical subject matter, her tone remains informal and lighthearted (with plenty of pun-based jokes), so it never gets overwhelming. Recommended.

  • Emily

    I love this book so much I'd marry it, or at least I feel the need to proselytize everyone I meet about the joys of "this dictionary book I just read." It was so much fun to read, and I keep finding myself relating things I learned from it to other people. I also recommend it to the book club, so here's hoping I get to read it again later.

    Should this come with a disclaimer? My husband and I love
    A Way with Words and have spent many hours enjoying those weird and delightful regional variations that creep into the language. He was recently riding in a car with someone who said it was the worst show on radio. I guess lexicographical delight is not for everyone, but if you're someone who has a interest in words, I highly recommend it.

  • Michelle

    Who reads books about how dictionaries are made? Nerds. Nerds like me. Being a nerd, I found this book to be very interesting and informative. It had a good mix of information about the dictionary business, language usage, word origin, and the history of language and dictionaries. Unfortunately I also found this book very hard to read. Overall I was quite disappointed with the quality of the writing. I felt like the book was very poorly organized, repetitive, and wordy. I also didn't care for the light-hearted tone and the author's attempts to make this into a memoir. There is good stuff to be found in this book, but reading it was such a slog that I'm not really sure it's worth it, even for nerds like me.