| Title | : | Hidden |
| Author | : | |
| Rating | : | |
| ISBN | : | 0007260989 |
| ISBN-10 | : | 9780007260980 |
| Language | : | English |
| Format Type | : | Paperback |
| Number of Pages | : | 368 |
| Publication | : | First published January 1, 2007 |
Tayo arrives at Cathy’s with only the clothes he stands up in. He has been brought to her by the police, but he is calm, polite, and very well spoken, and not at all like the children she normally fosters. The social worker gives Cathy the forms which should contain Tayo’s history, but apart from his name and age, it is blank. Tayo has no past.
Tayo is an 'invisible' child, kidnapped from his loving father in Nigeria and brought illegally to the UK by his drink and drugs dependent prostitute mother, where he is put to work in a sweat shop in Central London. When he sustains an injury and is no longer earning, he is cast out.
When Cathy takes Tayo to school he points out a dozen different addresses where he has stayed in the last six months, often being left alone. Tayo lies, and manipulates situations to his own advantage and Cathy has to be continually on guard. Tayo’s social worker searches all computer databases but there is no record of Tayo – he has only attended school for 3 terms and has never seen a doctor. He and his mother have been evading the authorities by living ‘underground’.
With his mother recently released from prison, Tayo is desperate to live with his father in Nigeria, but no one can track him down or even prove that he exists.
Hidden Reviews
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Wow. What a roller coaster of emotions. I cried, I laughed, I flipped pages in anticipation that this little boy would find his happy ending. I have only read one book from Cathy Glass before this book but I am very fond of her writing style. She has a way of making you feel like you're right there with her. I admire the way she describes such things in amazing detail without it also being too much. Little Tayo teared at my heart strings and I felt for him. His past has been nothing but awful for anyone to experience let alone a 10 year old boy.
Hidden is eye opening, emotional and extraordinary. I can't wait to pick up another one of Cathy Glass' books.
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What I love most about returning to one of Cathy Glass’s books about her experiences as a foster parent, is the familiar setting (her home) and the close comfort of her family. I know this might sound strange, but Cathy has a magnificent way of letting the reader into her home and the lives of her family and the foster child whose story she’s sharing.
Having only read two of her books before, I couldn’t wait to start with Hidden. I knew beforehand that I had to steel myself for what I was going to read and the many emotions I’d be feeling. Needless to say, the last few chapters of Tayo’s story had me crying buckets of tears. Cathy, and every person involved in helping Tayo and countless other lost/abandoned/abused children, are heaven sent.
If you’re a parent, or someone who cares greatly for the well-being of others – and if you haven’t read any of Cathy’s books yet – please do so. It’s shocking to see what some parents would do to their own flesh and blood. It’s also wonderful to discover these angels in the foster care system – such as Cathy, and many others – who open their homes and their hearts to these little, defenseless people. It makes me appreciate my children and my parents a million times over. -
I'm reviewing this late. I try to review the books I read within a day or two of finishing and I finished this on the 17th of this month. It's now the 29th. The reason I bring this up is because while this was my first book by Glass, I've since read two others,
Damaged and
Cut and will be starting another one,
Mummy Told Me Not to Tell shortly.
I'm fairly well read in the mis-lit genre and there have been books that are very well written that, even with the horrendous subject and details, I've sailed through. Very few have come close to matching the writing that comes from Cathy Glass.
I read my non-fiction as truth unless there is a reason to do otherwise. For me there's no other way - or reason - to read non-fiction. And from the books I've read about this woman I think she's borderline ready for sainthood. I love children more than life. My one dream in life was to become a mother to a little girl. *Mission accomplished. :)
But there is no way I could deal with what this woman has dealt with. I'm just not built for it. So I'm all the more happy that there are women like Glass who are built for it and who do step up to the plate.
My one and only complaint - and it's sort of a small one yet true with all three books I've read so far - is the cover portrayal. Why are the kids so young on all three covers when they're far older in the story? I started wondering if it was to get the reader thinking about the children previous time spent in abuse but I don't believe it's that. I think it's a marketing ploy. Obviously it's upsetting to learn of anyone cutting themselves but it's far more upsetting to hear of a child doing it. And it's far, far, far more upsetting to think of a young child cutting themselves. (This is just an example.) That doesn't sit well with me. In this book the boy is 10 years old and the boy on the cover is clearly nowhere near ten, even if he was tiny for his age. I'm picky about my covers so this bothered me.
But the writing is well done and I've seen a few reviews here and there mentioning typos so I want to say that I haven't caught many at all. Editing mistakes usually jump right out at me and I don't remember any from this or Damaged. That means there either are none or very few. I did notice a few in Cut but no more than five, tops. Definitely not the worst out there as any avid reader can attest.
I think her books flow so nicely, even with the brutality of the subjects, because she seems like she's 100% honest. She gives the good with the bad and doesn't go through any false motions. She doesn't hesitate to condemn Social Services when she feels the need and she also doesn't hesitate to praise them when praise is due. It's not the authors fault the latter happens less.
I'd recommend any of these books for anyone who reads the genre and if anyone is looking to find a good one I'd choose one by Glass. (To be more specific I felt Hidden and Damaged were better than Cut but that's just me.)
I have no doubt that I'll get the rest of the books she's written - with the exception of the self-help book - and I have no doubt that the writing will be up to par. -
And yet another foster book by my now favorite biography author, Cathy Glass. I won’t talk too much about the story as it would be a monstrous spoiler and I hate those. What I will say is that I am astounded at how well Cathy deals with each case. They’re all so different and you never know which way the poor child will end up. They sometimes fall backwards with their coping mechanisms and sometimes land in their feet running. Tayo was a special case who seemed so much older than his 10 years and it turns out he’d seen a lot in that short period of time. Again - I blubbered like a baby at the end like I always do 😀
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One of my favourite Cathy Glass novels. Loved the ending for Tayo! :)
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An excellent read.
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I wasn't sure whether to read this one or not. I thought it might be too upsetting- and it's been sat on the bookshelf for quite a while. I picked it up last night and have read it in a day. I love her style and it was an insight into the 'fostering' world. The world is a much better place due to people like her- who provide a safe haven for children in need. Tayo was an interesting little character and he'd been through so much in his short life- coming over to Britain with his abusive mother. He wants to go back to live with his father in Nigeria- but without any details they are unable to start tracing him. He goes into care with no history at all. He tells his foster mother that he has lived in several houses on his way to school the next day- and they discover that his mother used to befriend families and abandon him with them for a week or more.
I think I have another book on the shelves and look forward to reading it. -
Another amazing book by Cathy Glass.
Hidden is about a boy who lived in the same world we live in but in another part we don't know the truth of.
Young Tayo was a multiracial boy who lived in 21st century London, but have never been written as it's citizen.
He somehow was hidden from the public and social services.
A very intriguing read and no doubt a great book for children and adult discussions. -
The actual story is fantastic and I'm glad it had a good ending. But the way the book is written is to blunt, it feels like the author is going from incident to incident without really creating a story. I understand that this is real life and that the author probably looked back at her log to help remember everything but it could have a bit more of a descriptive nature and it could flow a lot better.
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Remarkable, true story of a foster mum’s experience caring for a child with a startling past. I sometimes struggled with the writing style: so much detail about minutiae. But I was kept engaged because she presents such a unique lens. I felt privileged to get a glimpse into the thought processes and daily realities of an experienced foster career. I really enjoyed her honesty about the successful and less successful moments, and Tayo’s story had me in tears by the end.
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One of the best Cathy glass books I’ve read. Such a hard story, but good ending
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Beautifully written. And the story of Tayo, what he has been through and they way he dealt with it and came out of it amazing.
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The story is based on a true life incident (in which the names and places have been changed) by a foster carer who was fostering a young boy with an astonishing tragic life.
A light and good read. I'm so happy to have bought this as a second-hand. :) -
.............. and they lived happily ever-after.
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This story made me cry, especially towards the end and I almost never cry when I am reading! Such a sad and beautiful story that you will definitely want to read again!
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Cathy accepts a 10 year old foster boy into her home who had eluded the system. There were no doctor or dentist records, no school records, no addresses for him and his mother. Somehow his mother had hidden him from the social services. With so much of his background unexplained, Cathy expected Tayo to have substantial problems, like being severely behind in school since he hadn't been to school. Yet when he arrived on her doorstep, his manners were impeccable and his speech was that of an upper class well educated person. On top of that, he could read, although he was a little behind in schoolwork. Tayo's mother moved from place to place with "friends" and Tayo was often left with people he didn't know and for lengths of time where he wasn't sure she would return. When supervised contact began, his mother would usually show up late, drunk and belligerent, or not at all. Tayo was able to shrug off her behavior and take everything in stride.
This was a more fascinating foster child of Cathy's. How did Tayo and his mother elude authorities for 5 years? Why was there no birth record or any paperwork on him? When Cathy finds out the answer, she is determined to help Tayo find his way back to his former life. -
This is the first book I read by Cathy Glass but definitely won't be the last.
This is the story of Tayo, a very intelligent boy, who has been through hell in his short life (in fact I could not believe that in this day and age and in the UK some things are still happening) having an alcoholic and drug addict mother.
He is convinced he grew up with his loving dad and gran, and soon becomes obsessed by meeting is father and going to live with him. Not having a name or an address for his dad it is impossible to find him....
Social services and Cathy are not even sure there was or is a dad...
I was awake until 1am last night because I couldn't put the book down. I needed to know how the book finished hoping that Tayo would get his happy ending.
5 stars out of 5 for Hidden. It was beautifully written and I think Cathy is amazing. She treated Tayo like one of her owns and made him feel the love that his mum never gave him. -
This book seriously touched my heart!! Tayo has memories of a wonderful life in Africa with his father and grandmother, but he has spent the last 5 years undocumented in England with his mother. His mother has badly neglected him, leaving him alone for days at a time or leaving him with people she barely knows. Tayo is a mystery, as he is well-spoken and intelligent, but there isn’t much record of him having gone to school. He refuses to reveal too much about his past. His mother is a real mess and incredibly angry.
The longer he stays with Cathy, the more maladaptive behavior Tayo exhibits due to his history of needing to manipulate and lie to survive. As a result, this book is full of some great advice from
Cathy for fellow foster parents. Tayo’s story has a very wonderful ending. His story is going to stick with me for a long time. -
I’ve always admired what Cathy Does for the children she cares for, but Tayo was such an exceptional case.
All the patience, Love and devotion she’s had for him is truly impressive.
Tayo is a 10-year-old boy with no Identifications, no passport and no legal papers at all. Minty, his mother is a state of he own.
This child has been through a lot throughout his years of living with Minty and it was about time he’s been brought into Child Care.
This book takes us throughout Tayo’s life and all the ups and downs he’s ever seen and The sudden turnout of events.
I got angry, sad, happy and devastated.
I laughed, cried, raged up and felt every emotion written.
And even though it’s not in our hands to choose the ending of the book as it was a nonfiction and based on true events. I had a hopeful ending in mind and I was pleased to close the book knowing what I know 🤍👌🏻 -
Cathy Glass has done it again! She really is an angel, a saviour. In this book, poor little Tayo is a little boy of mixed heritage. However, virtually little is known about his background. Ms. Glass does her utmost best to uncover as much information as possible. She again provides a neglected child with a loving and stable home, which is not something just anyone would or could do. Furthermore, I fully admire her patience and composure when dealing with unstable parents, such as the violent and raging alcoholic Minty, who is poor Tayo's mother. My ghetto side would have lashed out at that wacko! This book also explores the horrors of child exploitation.
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Just AMAZING!
I used this book to write an assignment for my school about neglect and resilience. And it was a great source for that.
This book as an eyeopener. You really feel bad for all the things Tayo has been going trough and the worst part is that everything is true. This have happened to a young child. I would recommend everyone to read this cathcy book.
I even contacted the without with questions I had for my assignment and she was just the sweetest lady who was happy to help me and wished me the best of luck. All I have is positive words for this book. -
This book as expected is just truly heartbreaking, it had me sobbing the whole way through. I think from a mother's perspective, especially a mother with a child whose father can't be with him it just totally wrecked me. I'm so glad that this story ended on a happy note as I know that isn't always the case with fostered children but I personally would have loved to have seen some kind of explanation from Minty as everything she did made absolutely no sense to me at all. I guess though there isn't always an explanation in these kind of cases.
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Cathy as usual your novels have taken me and my friends on an emotional jounrey . my heart goes out to u and ur family for the good u do for every child that passes through ur door. Ur novels give everything from knowledge ,understand,and help how to handle things that may come our way. Every page in ur novels brings forth some emotion. There hasnt been one book id say dont bother to read. All of them well worth it.
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This is a beautiful story of how love and faith can help a person overcome something truly horrific. It is also a tale of perseverance when everyone else is saying that it's time to give up. I enjoy all of Cathy's books. However, I have to say that this is my favorite. This is a truly remarkable story!
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The only thing that would have had to happen to make this a five star book for me would have been for it to have been set in the US. Having some experience working as a guardian ad litem in the foster system, I was amazed by the similarities between the US system and the UK system. It would be eye opening for someone outside of foster care.
