Prayer: Experiencing Awe and Intimacy with God by Timothy J. Keller


Prayer: Experiencing Awe and Intimacy with God
Title : Prayer: Experiencing Awe and Intimacy with God
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ISBN : 0525954147
ISBN-10 : 9780525954149
Language : English
Format Type : Hardcover
Number of Pages : 336
Publication : First published November 1, 2014

The New York Times bestselling author and renowned pastor explores the power of prayer.

Christians are taught in their churches and schools that prayer is the most powerful way to experience God. But few receive instruction or guidance in how to make prayer genuinely meaningful. In Prayer, renowned pastor Timothy Keller delves into the many facets of this everyday act.

With his trademark insights and energy, Keller offers biblical guidance as well as specific prayers for certain situations, such as dealing with grief, loss, love, and forgiveness. He discusses ways to make prayers more personal and powerful, and how to establish a practice of prayer that works for each reader.

Dr. Keller’s previous books have sold more than one million copies. His Redeemer Presbyterian Church is not only a major presence in his home base of New York, it has also helped to launch more than two hundred fifty other churches in forty-eight cities around the world. His teachings have already helped millions, the majority of whom pray regularly. And with Prayer, he’ll show them how to find a deeper connection with God.


Prayer: Experiencing Awe and Intimacy with God Reviews


  • Ivan

    “Writing a book in your 50s will go twice as fast and be twice as good as if you try the same book in your 30s. It’s just good stewardship to wait.”

    That was Tim Keller’s advice to pastors who desire to write. And he would know, since by my count, Keller has written nine books in the last two and half years. Talk about prolific writing!

    Keller’s latest work is simply entitled Prayer. As he explains in the introduction, his aim is to combine the theological, experiential, and methodological in one book (1). He wants to drive home that prayer “is both conversation and encounter with God” (5).

    We must know the awe of praising his glory, the intimacy of finding his grace, and the struggle of asking his help, all of which can lead us to know the spiritual reality of his presence. Prayer, then, is both awe and intimacy, struggle and reality. These will not happen every time we pray, but each should be a major component of our prayer over the course of our lives. (5)

    Keller begins by acknowledging that he “discovered” prayer in the second half of his life with a series of moments: his teaching through the Psalms, the events of 9/11 (his wife implored him to pray together every night), and after his treatment for thyroid cancer (9ff.). This book, then, is the fruit of what he learned and what over the years, in both reading and in practice, he has discovered. Rather than giving a thorough review of this work, I will simply offer a couple of points that landed powerfully on me.

    Warmth and Light

    Keller repeatedly emphasizes the need for both sound doctrine and vibrant devotion—or what John Murray called “an intelligent mysticism” that steers clear of cold assent to truth on the one hand and passion devoid of truth on the other. Keller writes,

    That means an encounter with God that involves not only the affections of the heart but also the convictions of the mind. We are not called to choose between a Christian life based on truth and doctrine or a life filled with spiritual power and experience. They go together. I was not being called to leave behind my theology and launch for ‘something more,’ for experience. Rather, I was meant to ask the Holy Spirit to help me experience my theology. (17)


    Prayer, according to Keller, is a way to experience one’s theology. Using the thought of John Owen, Keller writes that “we must be able to existentially access our doctrinal convictions. If doctrinal soundness is not accompanied by heart experience, it will lead eventually to nominal Christianity … and eventually to nonbelief” (180). Of course, there is also a danger in other direction where affections “outrun” light. Despite this caution, both Owen and Keller agree that it is better to have more light than truth. I was surprised by this point and suspicious at first.

    If we are going to be imbalanced, better that we be doctrinally weak and have a vital prayer life and real sense of God on the heart than that we get all our doctrine straight and be cold and spiritually hard. (182)


    Perhaps it was the inner Pharisee in me or the instinctive Protestant rejection of my childhood Roman Catholicism, but I squirmed at this notion, especially when Keller encourages us to read “the medieval mystics with appreciation but also plenty of caution” (184). But after reflection, I came to understand what he is saying. He quotes Carl Trueman: “If the theology [of the medieval mystics] often leaves much to be desired, it would seem that the answer is not to reject the ambition of the mystics but to combine this ambition with appropriate theology” (184).

    Augustine, Luther, and Calvin

    After constructing a theology of prayer in the first five chapters, Keller tackles the more practical components of prayer. For this he enlists three seminal figures—three “master teachers of prayer” (108). In chapter 6 he looks at the the letters of Augustine and Martin Luther on prayer and in chapter 7 he highlights Calvin’s 5 rules for prayer. These two chapters distill a treasure trove of historical wisdom regarding the practice of prayer. But perhaps most illuminating is chapter 8 wherein Keller focuses on each line of the Lord’s Prayer in Matthew 6:9-13. Like before, he incorporates insights from all three theologians. I will highlight one insight.

    Calvin, in his concluding remarks on the Lord’s Prayer, notes that the prayer as a whole was given to us in the plural form—“Us.” As such, “the prayers of Christians ought to be public … to the advancement of the believer’s fellowship” (118). According to Michael Horton, Calvin believed “public ministry shapes private devotion, not vice versa” (118). Keller underscores this well:

    Prayer is … not a strictly private thing. As much as we can, we should pray with others both formally in gathered worship and informally….

    C. S. Lewis argues that it takes a community of people to get to know an individual person. Reflecting on his own friendships, he observed that some aspects of one of his friend’s personality were brought out only through interaction with a second friend. That meant if he lost the second friend, he lost the part of his first friend that was otherwise invisible. ‘By myself I am not large enough to call the whole man into activity; I want other lights than my own to show all his facets.’

    If it takes a community to know an ordinary human being, how much more necessary would it be to get to know Jesus alongside others? By praying with friends, you will be able to hear and see facets of Jesus that you have not yet perceived…. Knowing the Lord is communal and cumulative, we must pray and praise together. (118-119)


    This is a timely word in our individualistic age. Private prayers are to be shaped by the corporate worship of God’s people. Each Lord’s Day as we gather with the church, we are learning how better to seek the Lord in secret.

    Conclusion

    It is a disservice to leave the review here. Keller’s discussion on the “touchstones of prayer” (ch. 9) merit more attention. His final section on “doing prayer” (chs. 12-14) are chock-full of wisdom. His concluding chapter on daily prayer provides some helpful and varied patterns of prayer that all readers can incorporate into their lives.

    Even his endnotes deserve mention. In almost all cases I prefer footnotes over endnotes, yet in this work I appreciated how the endnotes allowed for an uncluttered and undistracted reading. But I made it a point to read all 386 of the endnotes afterward and I learned several things: (1) Keller has thought about prayer for many, many years (hence there’s wisdom when he says to wait until your 50s to write books); (2) Keller has done extensive, eclectic reading on the topic of prayer and has gained wisdom from many streams; and (3) Keller is thorough in his presentation without being cumbersome (some endnotes can be articles unto themselves).

    I devoured this book in a matter of days. It is the kind of book that invites multiple re-readings since we never master prayer. Keller showed me how cold I often am before the Lord (seen in an impoverished and anemic prayer life), but he also pastorally pointed to a better way to truly experience "awe and intimacy" with God. Frequently I was compelled to close the book, apply its rich truths, and seek the Lord in secret—and with God’s people. If it has the same effect on others, I think Keller—and the Lord—will be pleased.

  • Drew Miller

    I'm inclined to say that prayer is one of the hardest if not the hardest disciplines of the Christian life. There are a lot of resources out there but In this day and age it's all about "new practices" that will revolutionize your prayer life. In this book Timothy Keller takes us back to what the Saints of old wrote about prayer. In a way that only Keller can do he has taken their thoughts and made them teachable in the 21st century. His ability to use illustrations to bring their thoughts into light is outstanding. We would do well to listen to the old guys more on all the issues of the Christian walk. I am thankful that he not only taught me about prayer but actually made it so i could put into practice what I learned. Just as Every Good Endeavor was the most applicable book I've ever read on vocation, Prayer is on the discipline of prayer.

  • Barnabas Piper

    I'm not sure how to rate this book. Keller is, as usual, thorough and deep. However, compared to his other books this is much more a survey of various texts and views on prayer patchwork together. It strikes me as the kind of book that will be ideal for some readers but left me wanting. I won;t say it was a bad or subpar book by any means, simply that it left me wanting compared to his many other works I have enjoyed so much.

  • Jeremy

    First tweet of mine
    liked by Tim Keller.

    Read some of this with a group of guys from church. Finished most of it on my own, taking a break during the Fall semester to finish my prospectus and then finishing it after my defense.

    Introduction
    1: update language
    1-2: communion-seeking vs. kingdom seeking

    Ch. 1: The Necessity of Prayer
    9: crises
    10: O'Connor's prayer journal
    11: Augustine and ordering loves/desires
    16: intelligent mysticism
    17: 4 practical changes

    Ch. 2: The Greatness of Prayer
    20: heart > mind
    21: summum bonum—love of God
    24: spiritual emptiness
    28-32: Herbert's "Prayer (1)"

    Ch. 3: What Is Prayer?
    37: 17c, Book of Common Prayer; Frazer—Darwin
    38-39: inward turn
    281: Kalevala and shamanism
    282: Jung and "collective unconscious"
    47: 17c poets (C.S. Lewis's That Hideous Strength)
    45/48: definition of prayer
    289: C.S. Lewis had read Buber

    Ch. 4: Conversing with God
    51-52: speech-act theory
    54: Bible as God's Word
    57: rational prayer is okay; apophatic prayer
    59-60: Psalms show us ways to pray (ways that our own temperaments might not naturally experience)
    60-61: Lamott (unknown God; no confession)
    62: creating our own God
    63: God speaks through Scripture

    Ch. 5: Encountering God
    68: God created to share joy, not get it (Edwards and Augustine)
    75: Aristotle and friendship
    299: Barr on Abba/Daddy controversy

    Ch. 6: Letters on Prayer
    84-88: Augustine on prayer (4 points)
    89-96: Luther on prayer
    88: suffering as a shield
    89: Luther's barber

    Ch. 7: Rulers for Prayer
    98: Wind in the Willows
    100: Spufford's Unapologetic

    Ch. 8: The Prayer of Prayers
    109: Lord's Prayer is too familiar
    110: referring to God as Father is praying in Jesus' name (recognizing benefits as sons/daughters)
    110-11: spread of God's holiness
    112: want to obey joyfully
    113: Herbert
    114: incurvatus in se; social dimension—justice issues
    119: C.S. Lewis and community

    Ch. 9: The Touchstones of Prayer
    121: 12 touchstones
    121-22: worst sin is prayerlessness
    128: helplessness; Rev. 3:20 is for believers
    128-29: God prompts us to pray
    135: Calvin's introduction to his Institutes—knowing God and ourselves

    Ch. 10: As Conversation: Meditating on His Word
    146: Ps. 1 is a meditation on meditation
    [149: false contrast between information and God's voice]
    152-62: Owen's 3 points: fixing the mind, inclining the heart, and enjoying or crying out
    161: when you can't concentrate, make your appeals brief and intense
    162: implications of the Decalogue

    Ch. 11: As Encounter: Seeking His Face
    167: letter in Pascal's coat
    175-76: seek God's face = seek communion
    176-78: if the beatific vision doesn't capture our imaginations, something else will
    178: anxiety
    179-83: keeping truth and experience together (von Balthasar vs. Owen)
    184: Trueman's appreciation of and warning against mysticism
    185: Augustine on God and desire (see p. 311n289)

    Ch. 12: Awe: Praising His Glory
    189-90: praise corrects other forms of prayer
    190-92: C.S. Lewis on praise—it completes the enjoyment
    193-94: Smith's Desiring the Kingdom and Augustine's ordered loves
    195: Ps. 135 and Ps. 136 (praise and thanksgiving)
    196: importance of gratitude; plagiarism
    197-99: Lewis, Cranmer, and Henry
    202-03: Ps. 146-150 (praise)
    204: to glorify God is to enjoy Him

    Ch. 13: Intimacy: Finding His Grace
    207: freeness and costliness of forgiveness
    208: Luther and continuous repentance (first of his 95 Theses)
    209: God can't punish sinners twice (because of His justice) [implies predestination]
    2014: chesedh
    218: Whitefield and 4 features of a vital Christian life
    221: Lady Macbeth and guilt

    Ch. 14: Struggle: Asking for Help
    222: primal prayer is for help
    223: don't be too timid; prayer as a weapon
    224-25: pray and work
    225: monks attacked first (because they were the most powerful, because of prayer)
    227: Augustine and disordered love
    229-30: long prayer lists
    235: joy as legalism; Christian Smith's moralistic, therapeutic, deism; Platonic dualism (mind/body)

    Ch. 15: Practice: Daily Prayer
    This chapter is very practical and specific.
    240: Alan Jacobs
    241: "Kalandar"
    244: Quiet Time too rationalistic
    245: set/written prayers?
    247: The Valley of Vision
    249: serious Bible study is essential for growth
    251: Edwards: see/taste
    255-58: praying the psalms
    255: Athanasius and "fitting words"
    256: 3 ways to pray the psalms
    258-60: boat metaphor (sailing, rowing, drifting, sinking)
    260: rowing in the dark; fellowship as feasting
    261: wedding in Cana—water jars for purification
    262: Cowper's "unknown tomorrow"; Herbert and Moody
    320-21: how to think about the imprecatory psalms

    Appendix: Some Other Patterns for Daily Prayer

    267: Keller's agent is David McCormick

    268-74: annotated bibliography

  • Steve Penner

    I have found that books on prayer, at least those written within my lifetime, to be generally unhelpful. Keller's does not escape this judgment. Coming out of the Reformed tradition, the book tends to be overly analytical, overly dependent on Reformed theology, overly fascinated with Puritan writers, overly long, overly yawn-producing. Parts of the history of prayer are of interest, but barely. Though Keller tries to be fair when writing about other traditions, the medieval Catholic in particular, the suspicious and condescending stance of the Reformed mindset seeps through. If you are interested in learning how to pray, pray with someone who is farther down the road. If you are interested in learning about prayer, read books on spiritual life and growth that approach prayer as a part of that larger project. And definitely read in the older traditions. I have found the classics by Brother Lawrence and Jean-Pierre de Caussade to be especially helpful.

  • Brian Eshleman

    After experiences like this, it is tempting to devour all Keller on my to-be-read shelf before moving on to anybody else. He speaks my heart language as a reader. He insists on approaching issues in context, going back to find how thinkers over time have dealt with them. He dives through what must be voluminous reading of dense material, sometimes in the now archaic language of earlier ages, only to price and enthusiastically convey easily accessible and applicable nuggets of Truth.

    After examining the subject of prayer with him, the reader feels like he has experienced the subject in the round, has experienced on-the-one-hand and on-the-other-hand, and has enjoyed the whole thing. However you are practicing prayer, Christian, you will find in Timothy Keller encouragement for what you are doing right, and challenge for how to experience more of God's Presence and direction through prayer. Words like safe and wise comes to mind with him with more urgency than a word like informative.

  • Scott Frazier

    This is by far the best book I will read in 2015. I told my wife that I'm slightly dissapointed to have read possibly the 'best book' so early in the year, yet she kindly reminded me that now I'm able to apply it to my life for the rest of the year.

    Keller is my favorite Christian author to read because he has a way of being scholar, pastor and teacher intermingled together. When I read Keller's books it's as if I'm a student of his sitting in his living room as he's teaching me all that God has taught him on the subject of prayer. He speaks to the head, heart and the hands.

    Practically, this is not only the best book I will read in 2015, it is hands down the best book on prayer I've ever read as well. It edges out "A Praying Life" slightly due to the more holistic nature of "Prayer", yet "A Praying Life" would be a good companion to Keller's book.

    Keller, outlines prayer through the lens of the "fathers of the faith" and influential figures in the history of the church. It was fascinating to see Keller weave together theology, church history, culturally relevant examples and his trade mark simplistic metaphors to make this book.

    Ultimately, the best litmus test of a great Christian book on a spiritual discipline is whether you walk away loving God more and with the tangible tools to implement what you learned. After sadly finishing the last page - the emotional disposition due to the fact I didn't want it to be over! - my heart was on fire for God and I couldn't wait to put the practical applications into play immediately. I couldn't recommend this book - or any Keller book for that matter - more highly!

  • Tom LA

    I know, I picked up a book about prayer called "Prayer" and then gave it two stars. This was the audiobook actually, kindly offered by the LA library. Aside from a bit too much finger wagging, I found nothing wrong with what the author is saying at all, it's just... not much meat to chew on, really, unless you've never once prayed in your life. It's like when you take a glass of water and pour 3 or 4 drops of fruit juice in it. When you drink it, it's almost tasteless. Same thing with this book. The content could have been written in two or maximum three pages, I'm not exaggerating. But it's diluted in long unnecessary paragraphs that re-hash passages of the Bible, and collect thoughts on prayer by Protestant writers who, in turn, re-hashed thoughts on prayer by Jesuits and earlier christians. There are mountains of books on prayer, and this is not one that I would recommend.

  • Maitland Gray

    “We should not decide how to pray based on the experiences and feelings we want. Instead, we should do everything possible to behold our God as he is, and prayer will follow.”

    Keller packs so many important truths in this book. This is not a self-help "10 Steps to Stronger Prayer" kind of book. Instead, it's a challenging book that stirs up the questions about prayer I try to ignore and hide from myself. Finishing the book felt more like a start than an end. I don't have all the answers now, but I feel alerted to the fact that I was drifting the wrong direction. Don't read this book if you're looking for the easy answers. And don't read this book expecting to find the hard answers you've been searching for. Instead, read this book if you need something to help you begin the life of prayer you're afraid you'll never be able to achieve.

  • Dustin

    Keller approaches Prayer from a variety of angles, explaining and encouraging all its facets and functions beautifully and captivatingly. Just one chapter from this book contains enough Biblical insight and advice to think about and try to put into practice for a couple months.

    I’m always impressed with Keller’s ability to weave highly intellectual (there are like 300 footnotes here??), historically/philosophically based argumentation with Scriptural exegesis in a way that is still HIGHLY accessible.

    I know I’ll be returning to this book for decades to continue to glean ideas and inspiration.

  • Tori Samar

    Absolutely reads like a Keller book (if you're familiar with his work, you know what I mean). Definitely more rigorous and in depth than any books I had read on prayer before this one, and I don't at all say that as a criticism. Very grounded in the work of Christians who came before (e.g., Augustine, John Calvin, John Owen, Jonathan Edwards).

  • David Steele

    Over the past twenty-five years, I have read books on prayer by the Puritans and Reformers, the Quakers and the contemplative writers, the Desert Fathers, and even some living authors who think they have something unique to contribute to the discussion.

    Timothy Keller's newest work, Prayer: Experiencing Awe and Intimacy With God is quite frankly the best book I've ever read on prayer.  This short review will only touch the tip of the iceberg; so I encourage readers of Veritas et Lux to read this incredible book for themselves.

    Keller's work is divided into five parts:

    Desiring Prayer
    Understanding Prayer
    Learning Prayer
    Deepening Prayer
    Doing Prayer
    The book aims to show that  "prayer is both conversation and encounter with God" and demonstrates that prayer is both "awe and intimacy, struggle and reality."

    Keller rightly notes, "A book on the essentials of prayer should contain three components: the theological, experiential, and methodological."  The author succeeds in presenting a lucid theological framework for understanding prayer.  He presents the experiential side of prayer by citing numerous Scriptural examples and drawing on the work of many Christ-followers in Church history.  And he sets forth a workable methodology, which in the final analysis includes many different forms that may appeal to different kinds of people."  Keller's book is biblical, engaging, God-centered, gospel-centered, and Spirit-fueled.

    Prayer: Experiencing  Awe and Intimacy With God will confront readers with the God-centeredness of Jonathan Edwards, the earthiness and practicality of Martin Luther, and the theological precision of John Calvin.  This work will undoubtedly be used by God to encourage faithful prayer, enlist new prayer warriors, and revitalize a church that has neglected the important discipline of prayer.

    5 stars


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  • Matthew Manchester

    This was my first Tim Keller book and it won't be my last.

    SUMMARY

    Keller writes a more comprehensive book on prayer than many of those I've seen. It looks at the subject of prayer through the lens of history, philosophy, apologetics, science, and of course, the Bible. This leads to a more rounded view of prayer, in my opinion.

    THE GOOD

    Okay, if you read a lot, you know how you can read 20 pages of an author's book and think "THEY CAN WRITE!"? Yeah, this is one of those books and authors. You can tell it was something he was born to do. The sentences are so fluid and beautifully composed.

    I was really grateful how much attention Keller devotes throughout the book on the truth that there isn't a required system or habit that works for all or one that should be enforced to do. I also loved how honest he was that, even for the mature and experienced, prayer is difficult, hard, boring, and awkward many many times.

    Keller really only pushes one thing: pray every day, no matter what. I believe his book makes the case on why you should take that advice seriously.

    THE CHALLENGES

    None.

    I will mention that Keller's language skills are higher than the average Christian book, though not seminary-level complex. This book is also 50% practical how-to. It wasn't until I read this book that I realized most prayer books are 100% practical how-to. I'm glad Keller was more comprehensive in this book.

    CONCLUSION

    This is well worth the read. What a gem.

    4.5 stars, rounded down.

  • Ryan Gossett

    Tim Keller did amazing with this book! By looking at the accounts of old Saints, and then using their teachings to teach us about one of the hardest things in the Christian faith. "He discusses ways to make prayer more personal and powerful and how to establish a practice of prayer that works for each reader". My prayer life has changed so much the last few weeks while reading this! Strongly recommend to anyone looking for a book about Prayer!

    "Jesus Christ taught his disciples to pray, healed people with prayers, denounced the corruption of the temple worship (which he said should be a "house of prayer"), insisted that some demons could be cast out only through prayer. He prayed often and regularly with fervent cries and tears, and sometimes all night. The Holy Spirit came upon him and anointed him as he was praying, and he was transfigured with the divine glory as he prayed. When he faced his greatest crisis, he did so with prayer. We hear him praying for his disciples and the church on the night before he died and petitioning God in agony in the Garden of Gethsemane. Finally, he died praying"

    " To fail to Pray, then, is not merely to break some religious rule-- it is a failure to treat God as God. It is a sin against his glory."

  • Nathan Moore

    Absolutely fantastic. Keller’s best. Brimming with classic Keller insight, much of which is very practical. He relies heavily on Augustine, Calvin, Luther, and Owen. I’m going to go read or re-read all their work on prayers. Unlike some reviewers, I found the book very coherent and balanced. I will be processing this one for a long time.

    Though I probably wouldn’t recommend this to someone as their “first” book on prayer, it is as complete of a treatment as I can imagine in a book this length. Bravo.

  • Em Swaine

    Could not rate this book more highly and definitely need to read it again and again! This book has flipped my heart and desire to talk to God.

    Notes:

    Chapter 1
    - pray that the Holy spirit would allign knowledge of mind and affects of the heart for prayer
    - 4 practices of prayer took Keller 2 years to make a break through
    1) Read the Psalms. Summarise. Pray through them
    2) meditate between Bible reading and prayer
    3) pray morning and evening
    4) began praying with greater expectation
    - journey from duty to delight

    Chapter 2
    - notice how Paul prays for others to know God more NOT for circumstances and hardships to be removed from them
    - personal prayer reflects in our public character
    - nothing great is easy. Therefore prayer should be hard
    - no prayer life means we are not treating God as he deserves
    - prayer helps us recognise who God is and know him more
    - prayer is paralleled to manor. Helps us remember where our provision is from and sustains us for the future

    Chapter 3
    - prayer should be mystical (inward) and prophetic (outward) at once
    - divinitatis sensum = humanity's sense of deity. Reason prayer is so pervasive across all races

    Chapter 4
    - if attended to with trust and faith,the Bible is the way to actually hear God speaking and also to meet God himself
    - we should be getting out prayer vocab from the Bible
    - all speech is answering speech... We are spoken to before we spoke. We speak to the degree we are spoken to.
    - there is a place for silence before God
    - the Bible does not present an art of prayer; it presents the God of prayer
    - God speaks to us in his word. We respond in prayer

    Chapter 5
    - prayer is our way of entering into the happiness and communion of God himself
    - we have the most intimate and unbreakable relationship possible with the God of the universe
    - prayer is the appropriate way to access the father's love and to experience the calm strength in one's life that results from such assurance of being cared for.
    - our access to God is so intimate because of our 'mutual friend' (Jesus)
    - GOAL: to know God better and enjoy his presence
    - his love pales the treasures of this world
    - you don't have true saving knowledge of him until you long to know and serve him
    - the only time Jesus prays without calling to his father on the cross when he was forsaken/forgotten. He was forgotten so we could be remembered.
    - prayer turns theology into experience
    - we receive his joy, love, peace, confidence, godly attitude, behaviour and character in prayer

    Chapter 6
    - prayer is the continuation of a conversation GOD started
    - you must first account yourself desolate
    - we must see that our hearts loves are disordered
    - Lord, meet my material needs, give me wealth but only as much as I can handle without harming my ability to put you first in my life.
    - we must pray whether we feel like it or not

    Chapter 7
    - healthy fear of God
    - God invites us to pray for anything.... What's the point of God's will is going to happen anyway??
    A. God invites us to and promises to answer prayers. God often waits for us to recognise our need and request before providing it. Why? Good things that we don't ask for can be interpreted by our hearts as fruit of our own diligence and sufficiency. Gifts that are not acknowledged from God are deadly to the soil. They thicken the illusion of self sufficiency that leads to overconfidence and sets us up for failure!
    Therefore, we do not have because we don't ask! P102
    - God does not owe us anything

    Chapter 8
    - the Lord's prayer explained (WOW!)

    Chapter 9
    - prayer is a duty and a discipline
    - the worst sin is prayerlessness
    - we should pray even if we are not getting anything out of it
    - prayer is always hard work
    - no Christian outgrows the struggle to pray
    - prayer is the way that all the things we believe in and Christ has won for us become our strength.
    - prayer is the way the truth is worked into our hearts to create new instincts, reflexes, and dispositions
    - we need avoid being submissive or importunatively in prayer. We are invited to pray specifically with confidence BUT we are not to pray as to make God's will fit ours. We must combine tenacious importunity with deep acceptance of Gods wise will whatever it is

    Chapter 10
    - meditate on the word
    - meditation and prayer

    Chapter 11
    - we must not settle for an informed mind without an engaged heart!

    Chapter 12
    - praise and adoration are the essential preconditions for the proper formulation and motivation of prayer
    - prayer plunges us into the fullness of who he is and his love becomes more real than the rejection or disappointment we are experiencing. Then we can handle our problems and can hold our heads up again

    Chapter 13
    - Jesus fulfilled the conditions of the covenant so we can enjoy the unconditional love of God. Because of the cross, God can be both just toward sin and yet mercifully justifying sinners.
    - while there always is some bitterness and grief in repentance, deeper realisations of sin lead to greater assurances of his grace. The more we know we are forgiven, the more we repent, the faster we grow and change, the deeper our humility and our joy.
    - we must be inwardly grieved and appalled enough by sin
    - daily self examination page 218
    a) deep humility
    b) a well guided zeal
    c) a burning love
    d) a single eye

    Chapter 14
    - praying is active pleading with God
    - it is quite natural in prayer to ask wrongly or not at all. We must learn to ask and to ask rightly
    - we need to be embedding theological reasoning into all our prayers
    - we can be sure that if we ask for something that wouldn't be best for us God won't give it to us

    Chapter 15
    - do everyone all day with conscious reference to God. - There should be background music of thankfulness and joy behind every incident in our day.
    - let it become a habit of the heart
    - are you sailing, rowing, drifting or sinking

  • Paul

    Prayer. What an overlooked feature of the Christian life. God the Father - committed to our good. Jesus our Brother, granting us access by His righteousness and obedience, interceding for us. And the Holy Spirit - not "like" God within us, but actually God Himself living within me teaching me to pray and leading me into His presence. What an amazing gift that we are quick to dismiss.

  • DiAnn

    Prayer-changer

    One of the most detailed and Scriptural books on prayer that I’ve ever experienced. The giants of our faith and the touch of the Holy Spirit brought the value of prayer to life.

  • Daniel Threlfall

    I appreciate how Keller is able to weave scholarly research with devotional encouragement. He does so in a very readable way.

  • Jeff Colston

    Keller is just so great. I was particularly struck while reading this book just how well he summarizes the works of others while still offering something fresh and new. The last chapter is very practical and will be a guide for me going forward for sure. Very blessed by this.

    Here are some of my favorite quotes:

    “The infallible test of spiritual integrity, Jesus says, is your private prayer life. Many people will pray when they are required by cultural or social expectations, or perhaps by the anxiety caused by troubling circumstances. Those with a genuinely lived relationship with God as Father, however, will inwardly WANT to pray and therefore will pray even though nothing on the outside is pressing them to do so. They pursue it even during times of spiritual dryness, when there is no social or experiential payoff.”

    “Imagine an eight-year-old boy playing with a toy truck and then it breaks. He is disconsolate and cries out to his parents to fix it. Yet as he’s crying, his father says to him, ‘A distant relative you’ve never met has just died and left you one hundred million dollars.’ What will the child’s reaction be? He will just cry louder until his truck is fixed. He does not have enough cognitive capacity to realize his true condition and be consoled. In the same way, Christians lack the spiritual capacity to realize all we have in Jesus.”

    “Good things that we do not ask for will usually be interpreted by our hearts as the fruit of our own wisdom and diligence. Gifts from God that are not acknowledged as such are deadly to the soul, because they thicken the illusion of self-sufficiency that leads to overconfidence and sets us up for failure.”

    “You believe in a loving God. Then along comes criticism, or rejection (say, a relationship breaks up), or some failure that’s a blow to your reputation in some realm. Anyone in such a situation will feel quite crestfallen and downcast. But there is a difference between being discouraged and being devastated, between sliding into despondency and not being able to function. If God’s love is an abstraction, it is of no consolation. But if it is a felt and lived reality through prayer then it buoys you up.”

  • Naomi Bowen

    Prayer is one of the parts of the faith life that most Christians feel guilty about & want to be better at. I imagine some - like me- hope to find a 'How to' guide in these pages.
    Actually, Keller approaches the topic in a much more helpful way.
    First, he explores the theology of prayer.. Some may call this dull but I think a reminder of what prayer is - 'conversation & encounter with a personal God' - will make the reader keen to pray, instead of feeling they have to.
    After this, Keller explores how we can make our prayer time more focused & meaningful, before ending the book with detailed suggestions of how to pray daily. The truth is, we're easily distracted & points like this can keep us from brief or rambling, distracted prayers. This book would be great to kick start a fresh prayer life - but don't feel limited by it.

    Remember - God loves to hear His children's prayers no matter how unpolished. I hope this book gets you as excited for conversation with Him as it did for me!

  • Laura

    Sometimes I'm so thankful that we live in this day and age where there is wise, Godly men and women that write books to help us in our walk with God.
    I don't make it a secret that Prayer is probably one of the main things I struggle with and this book was so helpful. It is informative, encouraging and practical.
    Keller was real about his struggles with prayer and offered great insights into why prayer is important, even when we're not 'feeling' it (particularly when we're not feeling it.)
    Would highly recommend this book for anyone that wants to think more deeply about Prayer.

  • Ada Tarcau

    My expectations regarding this book were very, very high. Nevertheless, the book did mange to surpass them!
    I cannot recommand it enough. It would be worthwhile to every christian.
    This is a very thorough and fully-packed book, being both well-documented, clear, theoretical, theological and also very practical, deeply motivating, experiential and amazingly insightful.
    I have started listening to it but ended up buying and reading the kindle version as well. There was just to much to it.
    I must turn to it over again. And print out some extremly useful passages for personal everyday guidance. It’s full of treasures.

  • Sheila Jungco

    There are books that are so deep they become relatively longer than any.

    If you are new in the faith or been looking for a mentor and seeking guidance of how to pray, then this book will be good for you. You can build good foundation of why you pray and how to do it. For the west, the words matter. They should be coherent and biblical. For the east, silence and meditation is highly recommended. This to cultivate the inner spirit within you. You can have both. One for your meditation and inner spiritual growth, and the other with your community. you need to learn how to pray with purposive words. Both requires practice and mindfulness.
    I hope your prayer life grows daily.

  • Nathan Harris

    An excellent book. Keller puts prayer under a microscope and, from a Biblical and Church-historical perspective, tells us what prayer is, what it is not, dangerous alternatives/corruptions of prayer, the benefits of prayer, how prayer was practiced in a long line of well known Christians & theologians, and how to practically implement prayer in our lives. But the greatest quality of this book is that it forces us to take a long, hard look at how important and effectual prayer should be in the life of every Believer. I will definitely be reading and referencing this book again.

  • Buddy

    You should read this book… keeping it close by so I can turn back through often. Will be my go to book on prayer that I share with others. Would recommend to those in all walks of faith. Great for those asking where to even start with prayer while also challenging those who have been walking with the Lord for years.

  • Samuel G. Parkison

    This is a very different book for Keller. Far more immediately practical. It’s also a survey on historical practices of prayer. I anticipate this book being a very helpful resource to the many church members I recommend it to in the years to come.

  • Angel Tejada

    Es un excelente libro, que va desde explicar que es la oración, hasta la práctica de la misma, sin duda alguna ayuda a evaluar mucho como esta nuestra vida de oración y puedo decir, que al terminar este libro, mis oraciones han cambiado mucho.

  • Ben Robin

    Spectacular.