Drunk-ish: A Memoir of Loving and Leaving Alcohol by Stefanie Wilder-Taylor

Drunk-ish: A Memoir of Loving and Leaving Alcohol Reviews

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  Shannon (The Book Club Mom)

  I was first introduced to Stefanie Wilder-Taylor many moons ago, when my kiddos were toddlers, and we watched a lot of tv shows on Nickelodeon. During the day, my son and daughter would watch Dora the Explorer, Paw Patrol, and Blaze & the Monster Machines. One night after the kids were in bed, yet Nickelodeon was still blaring, I discovered a funny and super relatable show called Parental Discretion with Stefanie Wilder-Taylor. I appreciated the fact that it was geared towards moms, and funny as heck. At that point in my life, I desperately needed some comedic relief, so I tried to catch Stefanie’s show every weeknight. I loved her snarky sense of humor so much, I started following her on Facebook, and soon found out that she had written a hilarious parenting guide called, Sippy Cups Are Not for Chardonnay. (So funny! Adored it!) When I heard that she had a new memoir coming out, I requested it immediately. In Drunk-ish, Wilder-Taylor talks both candidly and seriously about her relationship with alcohol. In the throes of motherhood, she would day-drink with other moms during play dates, and sipped on wine to unwind after a long day. She didn’t think she had a problem with alcohol, but some of her friends and family members were concerned. At first, she was in denial and made excuses. Her life was stressful! Sure, maybe she was becoming dependent on alcohol to get through the day, but was it really that bad? When do you label yourself an actual alcoholic? How awful do things need to be? She’d never received a DUI, and had never been to rehab, so how could she be an alcoholic? After some reflection, her eyes were opened, and it became evident that she needed some help. I found Wilder-Taylor’s bravery, openness, and honesty in discussing her road to sobriety extremely admirable. I’m so glad she had the support, tools, and resources to get the help she needed. I applaud her for sharing her story, as I think it could be helpful to others who find themselves toeing that same line when it comes to alcohol use.
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  Shannon

  An incredibly honest memoir about the author's drug and alcohol addiction and disordered eating habits and the wake up call that forced her to stop cold turkey. Told with her trademark humor and wit, this was highly relatable and a must read for anyone (especially mothers) wondering if they might be using alcohol to avoid/deflect from other life problems, particularly depression, anxiety and postpartum. Great on audio read by the author herself. Many thanks to Simon Schuster Audio for a complimentary ALC in exchange for my honest review!
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  A Smith

  "Drunk-ish" is a refreshingly candid and humorous memoir that delves into the complex relationship many of us have with alcohol. Stefanie Wilder-Taylor's journey from using alcohol as a social lubricant to questioning its place in her life is both relatable and eye-opening. Her witty anecdotes, from liquor cabinet concoctions to tequila shots in her comedy days, resonate with anyone who has sought solace or excitement in a drink. The book takes you on a rollercoaster of self-discovery as Stefanie grapples with the question of whether she's a "real" alcoholic. Her decision to embrace sobriety is both courageous and empowering, making this memoir a heartfelt and funny farewell letter to a toxic but familiar friend. "Drunk-ish" is a must-read for anyone who has questioned their own relationship with alcohol and found strength in making a change for the better.
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  Ink_Drinker

  My father, uncles and cousins were all alcoholics.  I grew up in a family where drinking every day was normal.  My drinking nightmare began when I was in high school and it ended in 2001.  I've been 23yrs sober!!!
  
  The reason I share this is because I know there may be others out there that need help, but are afraid or too embarassed to talk about it with anyone.  I want you to know my DMs are always open and private.  I've hit rock bottom (I won't share those details here) and never thought I could quit drinking, but I did and I am now a much stronger and more confident person and YOU can do it too!!
  
  Stefanie Wilder-Taylor's story of becoming sober after years of drunkenness is told with wit, intelligence, and engaging honesty.
  
  Stephanie, a mother, reflects on her relationship with alcohol—from high school concoctions to young motherhood. She questions whether her struggle to moderate is shared by others. One evening, she teeters on the edge but decides sobriety is worth it. Her memoir is a tender and funny farewell to a beloved but toxic friend.
  
  Stefanie candid account makes this book a refreshing exploration of life, addiction, and self-discovery.
  
  If you think you may drink to much or have a loved one your concerned about, here are a few other books that I've read along my journey that have helped me.
  ●Drinking: A Love Story by Caroline Knapp
  ●The Unexpected Joy of Being Sober by Catherine Gray
  ●Blackout: Remembering the Things that I Drank to Forget by Sarah Hepola
  ●Lit: A Memoir by Mary Karr
  
  🎧 I alternated between reading and listening. The author narrated and it felt like I was chatting with a friend and laughing over a glass of cherry flavored sparkling water.  I highly recommend listening to the book, if you can, because her sense of humor really comes through.
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  Shelby (allthebooksalltheways)

  Thank you Gallery Books, Libro FM, and Simon Audio for my gifted copies!
  
  𝗗𝗿𝘂𝗻𝗸-𝗶𝘀𝗵
  𝗦𝘁𝗲𝗽𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗶𝗲 𝗪𝗶𝗹𝗱𝗲𝗿-𝗧𝗮𝘆𝗹𝗼𝗿
  
  📖 From the author of Sippy Cups Are Not for Chardonnay , a hilariously candid and refreshingly honest account of Stefanie Wilder-Taylor’s journey to breaking up with alcohol for good.
  
  💭 Though the topic at hand is a serious one (addiction is nothing to laugh at), this memoir is infused with so much humor and down-to-earth-ness that it made it incredibly entertaining. Wilder-Taylor has a gift for storytelling. Her journey is difficult, inspiring, and relatable in so many ways. As someone who chooses not to drink alcohol, I hope this lands in the laps of those who need it most. ☺️
  
  🎧 This is narrated by the author, and she does an excellent job! I love hearing the words of a memoir through the author's own voice. It makes it so much more personal and impactful. Definitely recommend this format.
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  Deanna (she_reads_truth_365)

  From the author of Sippy Cups Are Not for Chardonnay, comes a true account of author Stefanie Wilder-Taylor’s journey to breaking up with alcohol for good. Stefanie was a former stand up comedian who needed alcohol, lots of alcohol to battle stage fright. After having twins, she consumed alcohol to help with anxiety. As a mom, I could relate to her struggles with parenting and the need to drink alcohol to cope. I admire her decision to completely give up drinking for her kids. Also, appreciated the author’s courage to share her story with the world. This story was so powerful, candid and laugh out loud hilarious.
  
  I received an advanced electronic copy from publisher Gallery Books and Netgalley. Thank you for the opportunity to preview this book.
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  Kerri Pierce

  I'm a sucker for a good memoir, and this one hit the spot. As a child of two alcoholics, I've been thinking a lot about my relationship with alcohol and this one really makes the reader think and reflect.
  
  Her witty banter, her honesty, her gift to pull the reader in to her story is what made this an enjoyable and quick read.
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  Basic B's Guide

  The audiobook is narrated by the author (who really grew on me).
  
  This is for anyone who wants to take a look at their relationship with alcohol or is sober curious.
  
  Candid, revealing, relatable and personal. The author shares a peek into her breakup with alcohol.
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  Sandy Gallardo

  I first heard about this book after reading an article on TIME Magazine. I was intrigued almost immediately after reading the TIME magazine article and I bought the book about a month after it was published. As someone who loves alcohol and who has left alcohol for 2 years now I could really relate to Stefanie. It took a lot of vulnerability for Stefanie to write about her journey with alcohol and the challenges she faced after leaving. It can be an isolating leaving alcohol and this book reminded be that it doesn’t have to be an isolating experience.
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  Liz Babbitt

  Life affirming, life altering, inspirational, brave, vulnerable. Laughed out loud, felt the journey in my soul, found myself within these pages. It’s like holding up a mirror to myself. I’ll probably listen again … and again.
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  Nicola Hope

  This memoir had some interesting moments and unfortunately (for me) relatable feelings about alcohol and motherhood. It went well beyond that (pills etc) and got a little self-helpy, but overall a good read.
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  Madison ✨ (mad.lyreading)

  I picked this book up because the author questions whether she constitutes as a "real" alcoholic when she decides to go sober. As someone who has questioned their own relationship with alcohol, I was interested to hear a sober story from someone who didn't necessarily consider themselves an alcoholic. That all being said - this woman had a very bad relationship with alcohol and she was lucky enough to recognize it before anything terrible happened. Therefore, it wasn't the alcohol memoir I was personally looking for, but with that out of the way, I still enjoyed it.
  
  Wilder-Taylor does a great job of writing as her past self despite being 14 years sober. Her line of thinking is very easy to follow, and I really felt for her. She writes of the complexities of our society's relationship with alcohol, and even acknowledges her own role in normalize Mommy drinking. I really enjoyed this book, and I feel like I got a lot out of it as someone who has questioned her relationship with alcohol, even if I was not drinking as much or as frequently as the author was before she went sober.
  
  Thank you to Gallery Books and NetGalley for an ARC in exchange for an honest review!
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  Amanda

  Thank you #netgalley for the early copy!
  
  Having read Sippy Cups Are Not for Chardonnay, I was looking forward to this new Wilder-Taylor read. But I was surprised to find the content a 180 of her previous book. In this book Stephanie bravely shares the events leading up to her sobriety. The questions that people may ask themselves and/or convince themselves that they may not even be an alcoholic. However, Stephanie does an amazing job explaining what worked for her, even when it was difficult, especially around other margarita drinking mothers. It was interesting to follow her mental health progression during this entire process, connecting with others in AA and ultimately connecting with her husband Jim, but for the first time in a sober state. All of this was done not only for Stephanie herself, but her children and family, no matter how difficult it may be.
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  Reagan Formea

  I received this book as an ARC- thank you to the publishers!
  
  I can always appreciate an author that is vulnerable and raw with their audience. This doesn’t have much to do with the book but I did also appreciate how the author protected her children’s identity, that’s rare in this age and I think it’s always for the best. I think this book could be very beneficial for people who need to hear about alcoholism and becoming sober from a typical, everyday person. She’s not someone with a huge scary story about her relationship with alcohol, she’s just someone who couldn’t control the amount she drank, and I think a lot of people will be able to relate to that.
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  Emma

  3.5*
  
  I'm obviously not the primary audience (I'm not a mom in my late 30s), but the thoughts and reflection on addiction, substance abuse and the subsequent denial thereof I find translates into many aspects of life.
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  Bbecca_marie

  Drunk-ish is a refreshing and relatable story about Stefanie Wilder- Taylor’s relationship with alcohol. It’s candid and raw in a way that rings true. Even if you may not have relationship struggles or issues with alcohol, this book opens your eyes to people you maybe know that do. Reading it, I look back and think of the times I was stressed out and immediately thought, wow! I could really use a glass of wine. Whether or not you’re trying to stray from alcohol, this is a memoir worth reading. It has its funny moment and it feels like you’re having a heart to heart with someone you know. Kudos to the author for writing such an honest take on her relationship to with alcohol and giving me insight to what a healthy or unhealthy relationships can look like. Drunk-ish is out today, 1/16/24. Happy publication day!
  
  Thank you so much Gallery Books for my gifted copy and the chance to review it honestly.
  
  Happy reading!
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  Julie

  A substance abuse memoir without much substance 👀
  
  I understand the author is a humorist but the use of humor here to sugarcoat her addiction issues and her path to sobriety feels cheap and avoidant. I felt like she never got vulnerable with me about her shitty dad and her alcoholism without cloaking it with pretty formulaic punchlines that did nothing for the story.
  
  It wasn’t terribly funny. It wasn’t terribly illuminating either. And it certainly wasn’t informative or inspiring for those who might be interested in curbing their own maladaptive tendencies.
  
  Two stars because it was a quick read that I was interested in finishing despite its frivolous tone. Unfortunately in this case, the jokes didn’t land and the humor detracted from her own story, which actually has merit.
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  Shirley Mytnowych

  This journey to sobriety is told with so much honesty and personal vulnerability, yet funny at times. It's not a sob story or a documentation of personal victory. It hits the nail on the head, getting at the core of what overcoming addiction is really like and what so many people in 12 Step programs have in common. She doesn't boast, brag or promote any single way to get sober- she tells us what it was truly like for her, using humour and words to describe her innermost thoughts along the way. 5 big stars from me!
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  Amber

  This is an unabashed and self-acknowledging of when is the time to admit you have a problem. Additionally, I really enjoyed Stefanie Wilder-Taylor's writing style.
  
  I received an ecopy of this book through Netgalley; however, my opinions are my own
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  Cassie

  ⭐️5
  
  “You can take the girl out of the drinking world, but you cant take the urge to drink out of the girl”
  
  I would give this 6⭐️ if I could.
  
  Stefanie tells her story in the most relatable way with humor that had me embarrassingly laughing out loud. Her gut level honesty had me in tears, wanting to give her a big hug and to say, I totally get you girl.
  
  This book was like the best weekend with your bff that went by way too fast-I loved it-thank you Stefanie❤️
  
  
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  Laurel

  A very honest autobiography that is both funny and poignant. Many, both in and out of the rooms can relate!
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  Sara

  I enjoyed this book so much! I’ve read a few books on this topic and none of them worked for me. Wilder-Taylor uses the perfect blend of humor and snark to share her journey to sobriety. This book isn’t a “how to” on getting sober but rather her lived experience and it was very relatable.
  
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  Krissy

  Our stories are eerily similar, very relatable and had me laughing out loud
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  Marika

  Author Stefanie Wilder-Taylor recounts what happened to cause her to become a sober mom. Readers who've struggled with addiction of any type will find themselves nodding in agreement with her irreverent take on a drop dead issue.
  
  *I read an advance copy and was not compensated
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  Lauren

  In DRUNK-ISH, Wilder-Taylor offers a perspective on women's alcohol consumption that is neither self-serving nor judgmental. I truly appreciated her humor, and I felt like I was listening to an older sister telling it exactly how it is. Written with unflinching honesty, this memoir grants the reader space to consider their own alcohol consumption while feeling supported regardless of where they land on the spectrum, from non-drinker to alcoholic. The audiobook is narrated by the author and resembled a casual conversation. For anyone that enjoys memoirs, self-help nonfiction, or simply a humorous, yet honest approach to improving oneself, I cannot recommend this one enough. Thank you, Gallery Books and NetGalley, for the complimentary copy in exchange for an honest review!
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  Bonnie Goldberg

  HAPPY PUB DAY - OUTSTANDING MEMOIR ALERT - While Stefanie Wilder-Taylor is telling the story of her path to sobriety, this book will resonate for anyone - it does not matter if you are sober, a casual drinker, a drinker who suspects they have a problem, or someone who just does not care for alcohol. The story Wilder-Taylor shares is bigger. Alcohol (and pills) are just the means by which Wilder-Taylor copes. We all have our addictions - Wilder-Taylor holds up a mirror to herself and breaks down the lies we tell ourselves, the half-truths we tell our family and friends, and the reasons why we need to push to be honest about our weaknesses, anxieties and foibles with ourselves and those we love. And all of it is told in her trademark very funny and witty voice. Come for the story about how Wilder-Taylor got sober, and stay for the tales she tells about being a teen, raising her own kids, being in a long-term marriage, coping with family dysfunction, and overcoming/managing the hard parts of life. Highly recommend. Thanks to Gallery Books and NetGalley for the e-ARC.
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  Megan

  
  So, So good !! And you do not have to have a drinking problem to enjoy it.
  
  
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  Alyson

  I haven't read anything from this genre in a long time, and thank goodness she is so funny. I completely missed the whole mommy blogger wave of the early aughts, and I honestly almost put this down because the woes of raising toddlers is not that interesting. Then she won me over with reference to an after-school movie. And I laughed hard because I remember being very confused by this movie:
  
  "I'd seen that seventies movie Sarah T.-Portrait of a Teenage Alcoholic. In that movie, Linda Blair stars as fifteen-year-old Sarah, who, possibly due to her parents' divorce, starts drinking every day, waters down the scotch in her parents' liquor cab-inet, drinks at school, forges notes from her mom, has slipping grades, etc. This all culminates in Sarah getting drunk and riding her beloved horse, Daisy, into traffic. Sarah ends up in the hospital and her poor horse has to be shot. There were a few obvious things I had in common with Sarah (divorce, grades, forging notes), but she'd ridden a horse into traffic! Who does that?"
  
  And I will just excerpt this for my own memoir because I couldn't have written better:
  
  "Question 14. Is drinking jeopardizing your job or business? No. But I definitely had a couple of close calls. Back when I was a cocktail waitress, a long, long time ago, we would do shots of Jägermeister while standing at the bar waiting to load our trays with cocktails and beers for our tables. Although slinging drinks was a job that put quick cash in my pocket, it was also one that required putting up with drunk people, and that required being drunk or at least dulled to a degree that could blot out the loud music, comments about my tits, and the low self-esteem that came with the doubt I'd ever have a job not in the service industry. Usually I was fairly good at gauging how many drinks I'd had, rationing them out to keep me just above buzzed for a whole six-hour shift."